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Identity In CJ Pascoe's Dude You Re A Fag

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When it comes to gender our society believes it is as straightforward as “how many kidneys do you have?” or “how many eyeballs do you have?” We can all agree that we are born with one of two sexual organs. What we can’t seem to agree on is our personal identity in relation to those organs. Life is a complex cycle full of personal decisions. In the short passage by CJ Pascoe titled “Dude, You’re a fag” there are a few points that coincide with the idea that gender should not be something society chooses for you. Gender is decided by your repeated actions, the way you view yourself and it is affected by how others perceive you. First of all, the issue at hand begins when others decide your gender based off of biological factors. Ideally …show more content…

While someone may look like a male, they are acting as a female because they identify as a female. There is nothing wrong with going against the biological factor you were born with. Society can not force you to be someone who you decide you are not. Evidently, Pascoe has found another study that states that gender is the “activity of managing situated conduct in light of normative conceptions of attitudes and activities appropriate for one’s sex category.”(468) For example, Sam who was born a male, walks down the street with a pink dress and a ponytail. Two guys walk up to her and say that if “he” was born a male “he” should act like one. This type of action scares people into hiding who they really are. I have seen this occur in person and have seen how it negatively affects …show more content…

One of the common words is fag, which is usually said to straight males, but the inference is that they are low, different or queers. Although this word is not said to homosexuals, since the meaning is offensive to gay people you are indirectly affecting them. For example, Pascoe has pointed out an interesting point, “while certain behaviors put all boys at risk for becoming temporarily a fag, some behaviors can be enacted by African American boys without putting them at risk of receiving the label.”(467) This very important point shows that the act of putting others down is something society has come up with. If you are being told one thing and that one thing happens to be negative and spreads, it becomes mainstream and affects a lot of people. Society has to stop acting like the regulators of life, they wouldn’t like it if someone told them how to live, so why should they tell others the same

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