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I M Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter By Erika L. Sanchez

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In I’m Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sanchez, the book follows Julia Reyes, who is not your typical teenage girl, she embodies an alternative, niche lifestyle and has ambitions that are opposites from what her mother, Ama, had envisioned. She is constantly being overlooked and compared to her dead sister, Olga, who the family knows to be the “perfect daughter,” attempting to set the prime example for Julia to follow. Although Julia seems to be an outcast, she is found to be relatable through the challenges involving family expectations, cultural identity, and mental health. Julia feels immense pressure in her life from facing hardships involving family expectations. Ama wanted Julia to conform to traditional Mexican values, …show more content…

Julia wanted to go to college, become a writer, and live a life outside of the path her mother envisions, but Ama sees those dreams as “Americanized” and wants Julia to follow her traditions. She sees the priority in wanting to complete her goals and follow her dreams instead of going down a fixed, narrow path; Julia obviously wants more for her life than what was being implemented. Her ambitions are relatable in that it appeals to more educated people who want to seek their own individual path and pursue education; additionally, she relates to teenagers in American society, where they are trying to make a better life for themselves from the rough backgrounds they grew up from. Throughout the book, Julia finds herself at a crossroads between two different cultures that shapes her identity. Julia grapples with her Mexican heritage and American identity, feeling torn between two cultures. She struggles to reconcile the expectations of her traditional Mexican family and the influences of American society, leading to a sense of cultural dissonance and internal …show more content…

I want to see the world. I never get out of this stupid neighborhood” (Sanchez, 89). Julia is influenced by American culture, including her academic aspirations, desire for independence, and exposure to diverse perspectives outside of her family's traditional values. I personally find this relatable, coming from a multicultural background myself, I understood the grasp of wanting to pursue dreams that were deemed Americanized by members of my own family as well. Some foreigners might find the influence of American culture harmful to the preservation of their own culture, hence why most foreign parents try to discourage their children from “chasing dreams” although it could provide opportunities for personal growth and advancement. From the very onset of the book, Julia had to grapple with the weight of her own thoughts and emotions, navigating complex situations, family expectations, academic pressure, and cultural expectations. Julia’s self-discovery through her battle with depression enriches the narrative of struggles within adolescence. Teenagers who come from multicultural or ethnic backgrounds can relate to Julia’s struggles because they want to prove themselves to their own families and create a life for

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