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How My Hair Changed My Life

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My mother permed my naturally coily mane herself the summer before I entered the fifth grade. I couldn’t wait to show up to school with my long straight hair. I conjured up about five or more different scenarios on how different everyone would treat me now that I was pretty. A year later the perms stopped due to my negligence. I was later brought into a salon to have my hair cut, blow dried and then I went next door into another salon where I spent five uncomfortable hours in a chair getting Box Braids. Before the braids were installed I knew I was going to look like a Black girl, but according to my mother, I didn’t have a choice. I almost spent my final weeks of summer in that hairstyle without any criticism or negative reactions. When I entered my building a week before the first day of school I saw Matthew, my former …show more content…

I was developing my self love and worth because of Youtube. It was the first time I experienced nappy hair as kinky hair, melanin as beautiful, and Black girl power. Even though I went to schools where almost everyone had the same physical qualities, it was never appreciated. My family didn’t help in the process because they didn’t have any knowledge on how to care for the hair they were born with and Black still held a negative connotation to them. Many Dominican women start perming their hair at a young age and never learn how to deal with their “bad hair”. I had to begin learning how to care for my hair at the age sixteen. I didn’t know that I had to keep my hair moisturized because it was naturally dry. I didn’t know that the majority of well-known shampoos weren’t made keeping my type of hair in mind. I educated myself about my hair with the help of Youtube videos and I was beginning to feel a connection with these Black girls on the internet. These girls had the same problems I did and they looked just like

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