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How Decisions Affected My Life

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In the past 15 years of my life, I have not been able to make many major decisions, although I have been forced to make decisions that have affected my life in some negative ways. In September of 2014, I met a boy named Mark, at first I thought he was ok, but we were the only kids there, so we hung out the whole night. About a year went by and we never talked, but then he started bowling with my brother and during this time, we got into a few verbal fights. So it got to the point where I did not want anything to do with him. Another 6 months went by and our parents started talking and a few days after that, he messaged me over Facebook out of nowhere asking me if I would be his girlfriend. Apparently my mom encouraged him to ask me, even though she knew that I did not like him. Throughout the day, she basically told me that it was my choice, but I could hurt him and say no, so it really was not my choice. …show more content…

I told my mom multiple times that I did not like Mark and I wanted to go back home, but every time I did that, it always ended in a fight between us. Almost 8 months went by and I was still in a relationship with Mark. Eventually he pushed me way too far and I just had enough, so I completely quit talking to him, then a week after that, I got a text from him telling me that we were over. My mom was upset with me, but she got over it. Although I was still stuck living at his house. Now we have been living here for over a year and I spend 90% of my day in my room and every weekend at my grandparent’s house. I do not get along with any of the people here including my mom. So looking back, I wish I would have told him no and maybe the outcome would be different. I would still have a relationship with my mom, sleep in my own bed, go to church, have friends and play sports, although since I said yes that night, I have none of

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