This past summer, I had my foot run over by a car. No, I’m not kidding. After the initial hysteria passed, the waves of pain started to wash over me. I ended up having to get surgery the next day, and it has altered my life ever since. I have been on crutches for the past ten weeks and won’t be able to walk normally for several more weeks; I never thought that I could yearn so much for something as simple as walking. Not being able to walk has shown me the hardships of disabled millions throughout the world that I had never seen or even thought of before. It shows me how much we take for granted the simple things in life. For example, I never thought that holding something as I walked was such a tremendous privilege, but crutches have proven it to me. I now have to ask someone, usually my mom, to carry something to me. Although she is glad to do it and it is her way of showing love and affection, it feels as if my worth as a human has withered. Moreover, in the relatively short time that I have been disabled, it has seemed to define who I am as a person. Crutches have proven to me that someone is truly judged based upon their appearance before any words are spoken or even before the slightest acknowledgment. Nevertheless, crutches have exposed a whole new world that shows how delicate and fragile life is. …show more content…
Real friends are the ones that are willing to help carry something for you even if they have to set something of theirs down- the ones that are willing to go out of their way to make your life a bit easier for you. I had a few of these phenomenal friends during my grim time, and they always seemed to restore my spirit when it had faded to the point of almost being lost. True friends are few and far between, and crutches have shown me what it takes to be a sincere friend. I hope to always live up to this standard as a friend and as a human in
Many people these days take their health and body for granted. Imagine losing the ability to walk suddenly due to an accident or a disease. This is exactly what had happened to Nancy Mairs, author of the essay “On Being a Cripple.” She herself had lost her ability to walk normally when she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis or MS, a chronic disease that attacks the central nervous system. Her essay talks about her life and dealing with MS. The purpose of the essay is to show how being crippled affects your life and how to stay positive and deal with it.
The writer of “On Being a Cripple” by Nancy Mairs, describes her life as difficult, but not entirely worth the cure. The writer struggles with multiple sclerosis, a chronic degenerative disease of the central nervous system, in which had weakened the left side of her body into wearing a cane. She experiences society pressures, false interactions, and many hard situations of having a body that hardly works. However, she carefully names herself as a “cripple”, and remains proud with being just that. The author never had any control over receiving this disease, however she had enough control in order to keep living with it.
Over the summer of 2009 I was playing with my friend Carissa, at Rohner Park, while we were playing on the monkey bars after a while of jumping off and landing on our arms to many times my bone gave out and i broke it. While screaming in pain my dad tried to ask someone for a cellphone to call my mom to come pick us up and take us to the hospital. When my mom finally arrived my dad rushed me into the car so we could go to the hospital. While we were in the car i told my mom to go faster because the pain was really starting to hurt.
How would people act or feel if their body is slowly weakening? Nancy Mairs, The author in the story “On Being A Cripple” shows that being a cripple does not make you different than anyone else. She also shows the reader that discriminating yourself will not just make it worse but it will be a disaster. To her she is a normal person but to others they see a “disabled” or “handicapped”.By using her experience on being a cripple, Mairs effectively draws the audience into her argument and shows them the good and the bad side of her condition. She uses many strategies that will make it easy for the readers to understand her essay. Mairs uses vivid descriptions, experience and her emotion to describe her life as
When my older sister, Molly, was ten years old, she was a temporary cripple. Molly went through a pretty big surgery that would stop her from tripping over her pigeon toed legs. While living a couple months in her wheelchair, an uncle of ours came to visit. His warm welcome to my sister was pushing her into a corner, locking her wheelchair, and calling her a windowlicker. Thankfully, my sister has tough skin. She took what others would find scarring, all as a joke. It is hard not to be reminded of the unexpected response my sister gave while reading the essay “I AM a Cripple” by Nancy Mairs. Within this essay, the author describes her life as a cripple suffering with MS. While sharing her thoughts and emotions (gerund) from
Hitselberger, who has cerebral palsy and often faces adversity in public, states "I will never say I fight my disability because doing that would be fighting a war against myself" (Hitselberger, 5). This quote highlights the importance of self-acceptance when facing adversity. Instead of ‘battling’ her cerebral palsy, she has learned to embrace it since it makes up a part of her life. Furthermore, the author demonstrates a growth mindset by reframing her situation into something positive. She also states "Instead, I have learned to embrace my wheelchair as the amazing tool it is" (Hitselberger, 3).
When I was four years old I fell off the bleachers and hurt myself poorly. This was a very critical condition in which hurt me in several ways. But not only I wasn’t being watched and I got told to run down the bleachers. This was just a start to everything when my head hit the cold hard ground at the softball park.
It was not long before I went to the doctors and got an x-ray confirming my foot was broken. The doctor told me I would have to wear a boot and crutches for six weeks. I giggled as I was always curious how it is to be in one of those cool boots. I miscalculated this small crack and chip on the x-ray and figured I will be alright. To be honest, I was relieved since my
There were only six people, including myself and my mom, in the orthopedic clinic's waiting room. The other four were two couples. When we entered, one elderly couple glanced up with wrinkled faces. The other was a mother and her adult son, and both smiled at me and my mom. After we had checked in for my appointment, we sat and waited like the other patients. At the age of 15, I was the youngest in that waiting room. I was also the only one wearing a cast on my arm. I felt a bit out of place. Then the door to the doctors' offices swung open. A young couple walked out, holding onto the hands of a little girl. They all had sparkling eyes and beaming faces. Upon closer observation, I realized that the girl couldn't comfortably hold onto her dad's hand because she was wearing a prosthetic forearm and hand. Despite her condition, I couldn't help but smile at the sheer image of her joy. As the family walked by, I stuck my good hand out and asked for a high five. She was shy, but her parents encouraged her. She missed the first time, but after a successful second attempt with her prosthetic hand, everyone in that room, even the women at the
Although it was a gorgeous day, accidents still happen, and on this specific something dreadful did happen. This dreadful thing will leave me with a scar for the rest of my little life and it all happened when me and my friend were digging a hole. This was a miserable day after the accident happened and it was a bad thing but I didn’t go to the hospital. This story might freak you out so warning if you don’t like stories like this one. If you read ahead thank you for choosing to read one of my many stories about my life.
My freshman track season I started to feel some pain in my left foot, so I decided to go to the doctor. He diagnosed me with tendonitis. I had to wear a CAM walker as I rounded out my freshman season, but eventually when I was feeling better I no longer needed the cumbersome boot. A few months later, when it was volleyball season, the rigorous volleyball tournaments began to have dire consequences on my foot. During one of the matches, I injured my foot again to the extent that I could no longer put weight on it. The doctor said that the arch in my foot was collapsing, and the only thing he could do to fix it was surgery, A few weeks later, on my 16th birthday I had foot surgery.
A true friend is someone who is always by your side and appreciates who you really are. I am Liesel Memminger and I was fortunate enough to have Rudy Stiener as my best friend. He was kind and compassionate yet a Saukerl at the same time, a mixture only Rudy could accomplish, and I am here to share my personal experiences with him.
Jason: Alright, Alright a true friend is: Someone who love and cares about no matter the circumstance, Someone who will come to your aid at any time no matter the circumstances, Someone who enjoys your company no matter the reason, Someone who pushes you to become a better version of yourself.
Friendship is not simply a "relationship", knowing someone, conversing with that person, or dealing with that person in business, school, or in casual acquaintance. True friendship is not just a "relationship", but self-sacrificing love. A friend is also one who supports, sympathizes, and is a person in whom you can confide. There are unique qualities that a person must have to be considered a friend.
When you were still in the kindergarten, friends were the people who romped about with you, played mischievous tricks upon everyone. When you were getting bigger, perhaps at primary school, friends were the people who helped you in your homework, who sung with you at the school choir. Had you forgotten them? Had you betrayed them? Are you a good friend to your friends? A true friend would always tell you the truth, be you best partner when you need him, most of all, support you.