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House On Mango Street Identity

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In search for identity Culture, ethnicity, family, sexuality, and society are all factors that can influence a person’s identity. A combination of all these elements usually result in the successful discovery of self-identity. Preadolescents and adolescents often find themselves in a constant battle attempting to find who they are or who they want to be. Adolescents are faced with questions like, What do you want to be when you grow up? What colleges are you looking into? What are your plans after high school?. In a normal process of growth, teens experiment with new activities in order to find their identity, but this is not the case for every teen. Some adolescents do not go through the normal process of experimentation for various reasons. …show more content…

Esperanza’s identity begins to be shaped by the discovery of her sexuality and unusual sexual experiences. In the chapter “Red Clowns”, Esperanza experiences her first sexual encounter, although it was not what she thought it would be. She finds herself being sexually assaulted and is forcibly introduced into the adult world. Esperanza learns that fantasies are not always what they are said to be. Esperanza states, “They all lied. All the books and magazine, everything that told it wrong. Only his dirty fingernails against my skin, only his sour smell again” (Cisneros, 123). She realizes, bitterly, that sex and love do not always mix, and that boys are not always romantic. …show more content…

Although Esperanza does not talk much about her parents in the novel, the concept of family is present. In the book Men They Will Become, Eli Newberger, a Medical Doctor and published author, recognizes the substantial role family plays in an adolescent identity. According to Newberger, “A strong family relationship can give an adolescent the self-assurance he or she needs to cope with all of the challenges of identity formation.” (par. 57). In the chapter “A Smart Cookie”, we can see how Esperanza’s family influences her identity. The mother-daughter relationship becomes intensified after Esperanza’s mother expresses her feelings. “I could’ve been somebody, you know?” (pg. 83), expressed her mother. This simple yet touching statement impacts Esperanza’s search for identity by questioning what she wants to make of her life compared to her mother’s. Valdes states, “Her mother’s nostalgic upbringing impacts Esperanza’s identity, for Esperanza it means primarily to be herself and not what others want her to be” (pg. 3). We can see how a mother’s statement can be perceived by her daughter as advice changing her perspective about both her mother and her future

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