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I still remember coming home from school when I was six years old saying, “Mommy, I’m so happy that now boys and girls are equal.” We had just learned about how things used to be and I was happy we had come so far. But I remember being eight and getting in trouble for yelling at a boy in my class. It didn’t matter that he had called me stupid, all my teacher said was “Boys will be boys, but good girls don’t fight back.” And then at ten years old I remember walking around with my family, hearing words I had never heard before screamed out of cars at me, not knowing what they meant, but knowing that whatever they meant wasn’t right. I remember my mother telling me I couldn’t wear that dress anymore, because she didn’t want people …show more content…

For as long as I can remember I’ve been hearing about how girls can only be smart or pretty. We’ve been taught that showing our intelligence makes us unfeminine and unattractive so we settle into average lives. Women take up a majority of the 5 lowest paying college majors, while men take up the majority of the highest paying careers, why? Because we’re taught how to blend in and be “good young ladies” instead of how to stand up for ourselves like our male classmates. While they hear about their leadership potential, we get simplified down to “bossy”. Studies have shown that women are half as likely to ask for a promotion, simply because they feel it makes them seem overbearing (Stanford University). There are more men named John running major companies then all women combined (Execucomp). Telling our little girls about how to be quiet and polite has turned us into pushovers, afraid to be “unladylike” and stand up for ourselves. Why does our society have to teach our little girls that they are less deserving of speaking up? I remember being thirteen and going to our family reunion hearing about how my cousin 's innocence was stolen. She looked torn up and absolutely broken, desperate for love and approval. But then she left and I heard my relatives all say she was “asking for it” going out dressed like how she does, it would 've happened eventually. Nobody deserves such a thing, but our society

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