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Gender Roles In Colonial America

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Gender Roles in Colonial America
Gender Roles were very important in Colonial America. Nowadays, young women are taught that they could grow up and be whatever they want--but it wasn’t always this way. In Colonial times women were limited in what they could do or even say. Although they had limitations, without the roles they played many people wouldn’t have survived. Gender Roles were passed from generation to generation with many limitations for women. Despite these limitations, many women were comfortable in their roles. The lifestyles of these women have directly impacted today’s society in the form of the feminist movement.
Gender Roles were forced upon people at a young age. Fathers would teach their sons “how to be a man” which …show more content…

On the contrary, some argue that women not only felt fulfilled by their roles in Colonial America, but they even enjoyed them. They were not as impotent as they are made out to be. Without a higher understanding of the Puritan culture, misconceptions have been made about the treatment of women. Many women enjoyed their household tasks and cherished their time spent caring for children. Post 1960s feminism has painted these women as miserable, oppressed, and discriminated against. In her essay Leora Hall highlights a fact that many people may not know, “Women were also not required to submit to all men. A woman was only called to submit to the decisions made by her “own husband,””(Understanding Puritan Womanhood in Feminist America). Submission was a common Puritan belief. The submission of a wife was apart of the divine will. The submission of a wife was to honor her husband’s role as the leader of the house, not to demean her or treat her as a slave. Puritan relationships were built on love, which most often stems from respect. There were no arranged marriages and couples courted before marriage. Courtship helped the couple test the relationship and see if it had the potential to last. Most puritan women respected and loved their husbands deeply, making it no problem for them to “submit” to them. Many say that Anne Bradstreet was among these women. Her poem “To My Dear and Loving Husband” shows the depth of her love and admiration for her

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