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Gender And Gender Impact On Gender

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Gender is important to Western society, and fittingly, it is deeply woven into the infrastructure of the United States. Whether it comes from the media, school, work, or church, people are fed innumerable amounts of messages everyday instructing them how he or she should look and behave based on their sex, and there is no escaping it. While these gender values have been challenged more frequently and intensely in recent years, one, growing up in a culture that places so much important on gender performance (based on sex), cannot help but be exposed and influenced by it to some degree. At this point, it is crucial to differentiate between the words “sex” and “gender,” which tend to be used interchangeably, an issue that leads to much …show more content…

To begin, I discovered early in my life that people are quick to form certain expectations for boys, and I, being born a natal male, was no exception. I can remember being as young as four or five and being told by others (caregivers, other children, etc.) that my interests were not appropriate for a boy, and I will admit, even as a child I noticed that not many of the other boys enjoyed the same things I did. While most of the other boys I knew were growing interested in sports, toy trucks, and other activities deemed as being for boys, I was not. I liked dressing up, Barbie dolls, and having my nails painted; however, I also enjoyed other, more physical, activities that the other boys liked such as playing tag, hide-and-go-seek, etc. Nevertheless, others were quick to hone in on my “girly” activities, and they were not shy about telling me how they felt about them—I was a sissy. These situations happened frequently when I was young, so I cannot recall many specific examples, except one occasion when I was around four and I was at my daycare coloring a picture. I likely had been using a pink, yellow, or purple crayon because another boy my age walked over to me and asserted that I was using “girl colors.” I immediately became defensive and snapped back that there were no such thing as girl colors, and this led the other boy to correct me that there was (common knowledge amongst my daycare peers). I do not remember any more of that encounter, but that, in

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