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Finding A Label By Charles Blow

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Finding a Label You often hear stories of people who know exactly what they want in life. Some are destined to be parents, athletes, great literary minds, or scientists who change the way we understand the world. Most, however, aren’t as lucky. Some people spend their entire lives searching for that one element that will define them, the one that will make them as great as those they hear stories about, to no avail. Charles Blow, author of Fire Shut Up in My Bones, details his entire life story through this memoir, as well as his journey to find the one moment that will give him a label, anything to fit in with the rest of his peers and family. It doesn’t take much reading into the text for the reader to realize that Blow was an …show more content…

Instantly, he was empowered by watching his mother become the dominant figure in the household. Through that he was empowered by female legitimacy. The battle between masculinity and femininity is prominent through the text, and because Blow was primarily raised in a household with a strong female lead he was heavily influenced. An influence that his peers and other family members were keen to pick up on, and use against him.
Often times young girls, as well as women, are associated with traits such as weakness and submission. As aforementioned outsiders were able to pick up on the strong relationship Blow had with his mother, therefore associating these submissive qualities with him. Unfortunately, that association lead to the first moment of definition for Blow, and came with the title of “victim.” Blows older cousin, Chester, occasionally stayed with his more intermediate family, and through small things that Chester pushed Blow to do--“One afternoon, Chester persuaded me to steal candy from the store up the street… I reluctantly agreed…” (Blow 64-65)--he was able to pick up on weaknesses. Blow was easily influential, desperate to fit in with those around him, and therefore he would do anything to please others. So, one night Chester put his dominance to work. “Sometime during the night, I was awoken by the feeling of something happening to me below my waist. My underwear was pushed down around my thighs. Chester

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