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Film Analysis: Never Perfect

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In the 20th century the social psychologist Charles H. Cooley developed the idea of a “looking glass self”; this idea claims that people generally value themselves according to what others think about them. There are three fundamental points to this idea: how one’s image appears to others, one’s own standard of appearances, and how one develops the “self” through other’s judgments.
At the beginning of the documentary, “Never Perfect,” Mai-Anh Tran says that her began telling her she would be more beautiful with bigger eyes at a young age. This criticism resonated in the back of Tran’s mind for years to come. Throughout her life, Tran’s relationship with her mother was severely hindered by her inability to meet this standard of perceived beauty. …show more content…

Throughout the video, Tran mentions how ethnic identity is only a small contributor to her feeling of imperfection compared to the influence her mother had. However, right before going into surgery to alter her eyes, Tran mentions having an internal battle about whether she should commit to the surgery because she feels she may lose some of her ethnic identity, but she was encouraged to go through with it because though she does belong to Asian heritage, she identifies more with American culture. Even prior to double eyelid surgery, Tran had already made physical altercations to achieve her standard of …show more content…

A group of young adult Vietnamese women are interviewed in the documentary, all of which relate to being pushed to perfection by their parents; perfect bodies, perfect education, perfect everything. The psychologists and plastic surgeons interviewed in this documentary even mention how it is common for Asian women to request surgical procedures in pursuit of what they think is beauty in American culture. Specifically, they most commonly request the procedures that give them larger, more expressive eyes. However, even beyond Asian-American culture, many people in modern society view themselves through a looking glass of societal standards and find something they want to change. Normally, it is rare that people are satisfied with their innate self-image when it comes to physical beauty— though, this notion is even more amplified among Asian-American culture. Even after Tran receives surgery, her mother continues to critique her and says she should have made her eyes bigger rather than positively acknowledging the change. Therefore, Tran may always look for ways to enhance her beauty.
Though Tran’s mother is a large influence in her decision to go through with the procedure, she is not the sole cause. Societal standards and media also play a huge role in how she sees herself. The media suggests that physical perfection is everything, which puts a lot of internal

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