Samoa can be described as having a unique history and a complex culture and society. The plots of both Sia Figiel’s Where We Once Belonged and The Orator revolve around Samoan society and its practices. Both works reveal the importance of family in Samoan culture; however, it is done in different ways. In Where We Once Belonged, Pisa and Alofa are brought into Filiga’s family, although rather begrudgingly, despite the fact that Alofa was born from an extramarital affair. In The Orator, Saili takes care of Vaaiga and Litia, who is not his daughter, because he loves them and considers them his family. Both the actions of Filiga’s family and Saili are just two examples of how the creators of each work aimed to show that family is the most important …show more content…
In the very religious Samoan society, as well as in most societies around the world, family is defined by the amorous unity of two people, with sexual activity or the making of children only allowed to happen after marriage. These “rules” are broken and extramarital sexual relations occur several times throughout the novel. One example of a character doing “immoral” things is Lili being in a sexual relationship with Mr. Brown and getting pregnant. Lili’s unusual closeness with the palagi man had been frowned upon by other people for a long time and she already had a reputation of being promiscuous, so her pregnancy simply accelerated the consequences. As punishment, Lili was severely beaten. Later in the novel, Alofa and Lealofi, a boy Alofa had a crush on, were caught naked outside by an adult. Of course, what Alofa was doing was considered extremely inappropriate and wrong. Because of her actions, Alofa was punished by having her head shaven and being badly beaten by Filiga. Even though it seems as if Alofa and Lealofi did not actually have sex together, the severity of Alofa’s punishment shows that even just the intimacy the two had together is considered immoral. Although the concept of gender roles is not the central topic being discussed, it is important to note that despite both Alofa and Lealofi were caught doing …show more content…
Several examples are seen involving Saili’s family, with the clearest one being Saili’s aforementioned actions regarding Vaaiga and Litia. It is revealed towards the end of the film that Vaaiga had sexual relations outside of marriage and got pregnant; however, it is unknown what happened between the time when Vaaiga got pregnant and the beginning of the film, when Vaaiga and Saili are husband and wife. What is important, however, is that Saili took both Vaaiga and her child in, despite Litia not being his daughter. Saili worked hard to provide food and a home for his family, and stood by them whenever needed. Saili’s actions display his love as well as his commitment to his family, in spite of the circumstances. Similarly, after Vaaiga passes away, her brother Poto displays a commitment to his family by aiming to have Vaaiga buried in the village cemetery. Other chiefs in the village try to stop him from burying Vaaiga in the village since she was banished and is no longer welcome. However, Poto gives the men a bribe so that they will let him continue with the burial of his sister in the village cemetery, where any member of his family would normally be buried. Although it could be argued that Poto was only worried about appearances and simply wanted to avoid a bad reputation for his family name,
Starting from the exposition,the main character, Felix is searching for his mother and father to warn them that Nazis are burning books, so he leaves the orphanage that he once live. dedicated to find them. In the sixth chapter filix had saved a little girl from burning up from a fire. “I haul the unconscious girl up onto my back stagger through the smoke and sparks toward the fence”. This quote from the novel explains how people need other people to survive. “The way this shows people need other people to survive” is that is Felix would not have saved this little girl and would not have been their for she would have got killed, Tortured ,or worse. Another quote that expresses the theme that family aren’t just made of the people whom you
Family is one of those words that have a significant meaning to various individuals. Family may be viewed one way to an individual and another way to someone else. Family consists of those who have played a particular role in one’s life, whether it is positive or negative. In this paper, I will assess Reymundo’s family both nuclear and extended and speak of how his family has become significant in his life and how they have played a role in his decisions. I will also speak of my personal reactions to the story as well as address ways that as a social worker I could work to impact the gang problems in Orlando.
The lack of respect given to the indigenous women in the European families is the main difference between the two family structures. Within indigenous families, everyone lived together and respected each other. In European families, the indigenous women were not consulted on family decisions regarding their children. In Mistress Madeleine, Madeleine is not respected when her “husband” brings back a legal European wife. Madeleine maintains her independence when her
Though Cecile Gilmer, author of “The People Who Love You When No One Else Will”, experienced difficulties living with her actual family, she lived with her best friend’s kin to thrive. Notably, the Beaches, Gilmer’s caring “family”, did all three kinds of Dana to her: alms Dana, fishery Dana, and courage Dana. Furthermore, their affiliation became so close that Gilmer was actually their daughter. Initially, Gilmer believed that life was unfair; nevertheless, it is fair. Essentially, the family that one lives in can be any family, whether blood relatives or not; moreover, the family just has to be affectionate. Therefore, by actually living in a giving family, one can grow into a mature adult and develop the life skills
Family has a large impact on one’s life because they provide support and help guide one in the right direction when making decisions. In Nino Ricci’s Lives of the Saints and Frank McCourt’s Angela’s Ashes, family plays a large role in shaping the lives of the protagonists, Vittorio Innocente and Frank McCourt respectively. A distant father results in the boys’ innocence and naiveté as their fathers never had the chance to explain the mysteries of life to them nor did they serve as proper role models. Frank’s and Vitto’s grandparents results in their distrust towards their own families. The boys’ incapable mother’s results in them not knowing what a family structure is, which in turn causes them to look to alternate people for parental figures. The family dysfunction of absent fathers, unsupportive grandparents, and inadequate mothers forms Vitto’s and Frank’s personalities negatively as it deprives them of the positive influences they desperately need in order to grow up with the right morals.
Does deviating from one’s gender norms inevitably doom one down a spiral of moral corruption? Tim O'Brien, author of “Sweetheart of the Song Tra Bong” and Ernest Hemingway, author of “The Short Happy Life of Francis Macomber”, certainly seem to hold this view, as evident by the fates of the major female characters in their respective works. The deviance of the major female characters in both works appears to corrupt not only themselves, but also pollute their partners, causing them to suffer injury or harm as a result. The degree of injury ranges from negligible, like Fossie’s demotion and broken heart, to fatal, like the bullet that rips through Macomber’s skull. It begs the question, are these stories meant to serve as cautionary tales for their female readers, or possibly for their husbands, so they may recognize gender deviance and stop it in its tracks before their wives transform into Margot Macomber or Mary Anne Bell? This essay will analyze what such characters say about pervading views of women, both in society and in literature.
Poverty and hardship are shown to create vulnerability in female characters, particularly the female servants, allowing powerful men to manipulate and sexually abuse them. Kent illustrates how poverty perpetuates maltreatment and abuse in a society like Burial Rites using the characters of Agnes’ mother Ingveldur and Agnes. Agnes’ mother is forced to make invidious choices as her children are “lugged along” from farm to farm, where she is sexually exploited by her employers. In spite of these circumstances, Agnes’ mother is commonly referred to as a whore in their society which abhors female promiscuity yet disregards male promiscuity as a harmless character trait; as in the case of Natan, who is merely “indiscreet” despite all his philandering. Born into poverty, Agnes experiences similar sexual coercion and manipulation from her “masters” and yet is labelled “a woman who is loose with her emotions and looser with her morals”. The severe poverty of Agnes is explicitly demonstrated to the reader by Kent through the intertextual reference of her entire belongings - a very dismal, piteous list to be “sold if a decent offer is presented”. Furthermore, Kent contrasts the situation of Agnes, a “landless workmaid raised on a porridge of moss and poverty”, to the comparative security Steina has experienced using a rhetorical question from
An example of how her family values each other is her description of the conventions and norms of her family. They are thoroughly supportive of one another, attending every graduation, baby shower, birthday, and house warming party. Her father and siblings have burial plots together so that they are never separated. Life is lived with everyone being connected and concerned for not only each person’s well-being, but happiness as well. She says her “relatives form an alliance that represents a genuine and enduring love of family…”
Is family important to you? Are they with you through your life? Do they make you laugh and happy? Well the place in the book is a mess. The government is corrupted and the people were not fair. The rich were separated to a different part of the city away from the poor. Families were lost and abused like Day’s. In the Legend series, Marie Lu illustrates the theme that family is important to happiness through Day’s actions, Day’s symbolism and Day’s dialogue.
During life, birth, and death, a family is one of the few natures of life that are present throughout. Often times, the value of family is taken for granted, and people tend to disregard the importance it carries. Due to the power present in the nature of a man, often times it is challenging for women to establish a firm independence, in distinction of the common norms inaugurated in society and in family. In both A Thousand Splendid Suns and Pride and Prejudice, men are the dominant figures in all households, as they have control over their financial status, who their children marry, where they live, and create means in which the females of the family must follow. The inferiority that women face leads to an inquiry of an immense pride
In every home, there is a different definition of family and how family should treat each other. Two short stories were read by an author named Flannery O’Connor. “A Good Man is Hard to Find”. It was about a dysfunctional family who encounters a criminal named “The Misfit”. The grandmother which is the main character is very judgmental towards others and sometimes her own family at times. This story starts off with a disagreement on where to go for a family trip, but they decide on going to Florida for the family trip after a while of arguing. On this trip, it showed what type of family they are. They talk about everything with one another as well as bicker and fight but at the end of the day, they are still family and love each other. They come together the most in panicking situations such as the accident and waiting for a car to help them. The point of this paper is the theme of family. Specifically, family is a theme in this short story because it depicts a dysfunctional family; the family you see on a crazy television show and can’t get enough of because they’re funny but also they have serious moments. There 's the two troublesome and annoying kids, the hot-headed dad who tries to maintain control of a situation and fails, the wife busy attending to the baby, and the grandmother, who 's a case all to herself (and also the main character). Though the story starts out seeming like a comedy, it takes a serious turn when the family encounters a criminal, who kills them
A family is the most important and fundamental processes of development in childhood. There are many examples of works that deal with family. In Frankenstein by Mary Shelley, the reader sees how neglection from a family setting can invoke horrible events. In The Fifth Child by Doris Lessing, presents how Isolation and dislike can and will lead to unfortunate events. In Macbeth by Shakespeare, shows the betrayal of a family and how it affects the mind by playing with it in several different ways. Before a person can see effects of isolations, neglection, and betrayal of a family he/she must “climb into his skin and walk around in it.”
Through it, people were given a look at a society not affected by the problems of 20th century industrial America. She illustrated a picture of a society where love was available for the asking and crime was dealt with by exchanging a few mats. This book helps one to realize the large role played by social environment. One of Mead’s biggest challenges was probably the fact that her fieldwork was done entirely in the Samoan language. In Samoa, few, if any natives spoke English.
I believe family is such an important part in this family’s life because they are all that each other has got. They hold close to their family because they have been through so much and they see death all around them, so they see the importance of their family. They also are taught from a very young age to respect their elders in the family because they have seen much more and know much more about all aspects of life. They are viewed as wise and knowledgeable and the young family members cherish the opportunity to learn from them. In the movie Gran Torino one
Mental challenges can be a lot more harder to get rid of or maintain. The most common mental challenge that most of the population of bullies face is depression, depression has affected many people and is starting to be most common. Insecurity can be a main problem to start a bullying process because if they are jealous of somebody they want them to feel bad about what they have. Then there's this disease called Narcissistic Personality Disorder that makes them have an exaggerated sense of their own importance and have an enormous lack of empathy for others. The challenges can be maintained with lots of work.