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Family Interview Paper

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For this assignment, I interviewed my wonderful mother Joan. I asked her for her opinion on the topics of marriage, sibling relationships, and grandparent relationships. She provided insightful answers that revealed a great deal about her values.
When she answered the question, “How do you measure marital success?, she explained that she believes that three things are important to have a successful marriage. First, she values the acceptance of both the positive and negative traits of your spouse. This knowledge and acceptance of who your spouse is creates intimacy in the marriage. The text states that a great way to foster intimacy is by being supportive and having knowledge of your partner. Through her response, it is clear to see that my mom understands this concept. Second, she values working as partners to create a well functioning, stable family. This shows that her views of marriage are in line with Fitzpatrick's traditional couple type. Third, my mom believes that people should help their partner be the best version of themselves. This shows that she values morality and consistently becoming a better person. …show more content…

She believes that this is largely due to the fact that she is much younger than her siblings. She could not relate to her siblings as a child because they were in a much different phase of their lives. Now, all of the siblings are middle-aged, so the age difference doesn't feel significant. Consequently, as they have gotten older, the siblings have grown closer. This is because they have shared the responsibility of caring for their aging parents and other family members. My mom’s statements suggest that she and her siblings could be categorized as loyal siblings. They are relatively close emotionally and help each other during difficult times (ie. caring for family during

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