Have you ever wondered who was at fault in Romeo and Juliet? Well, Friar Lawrence is the one who should be held accountable for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet and making the situation worse. Friar Lawrence gave Juliet a plan when he knew there was a chance that so many things could go wrong, he didn't even go himself to make sure the letter got to Romeo. Friar Lawrence should be held accountable for the horrible plan in Romeo and Juliet that was doomed to fail. Friar Lawrence was the adult Romeo and Juliet trusted and went to and in return, he gave them a plan that was bound to kill them both. Friar Lawrence, being the adult in the situation, should have tried to find multiple different plans and go over them with the utmost care to ensure both of the kids' safety. In Act 4, …show more content…
Even Juliet knew the many possibilities of how it could go wrong. In Romeo and Juliet, she says "What if it is poison?" and "Shall I be married tomorrow morning?" These quotes show Juliet going over the many problems of just the portion part of the plan, but Friar Lawrence didn't even think of those problems. He didn't take into consideration the many problems that could occur during this and that is on him because he is the one who made the plan. When Friar Lawrence went to send Romeo's letter that contained the whole plan, he didn't even tell Friar John the amount of importance in the letter. Friar Lawrence couldn't be bothered to take the letter, let alone tell Friar John the extreme importance of the letter. In Romeo and Juliet, Friar Lawrence says "The letter was not nice but full of charge of dear import, and the neglecting it may do much danger." This shows he didn't even put any effort into delivering the letter to Romeo and didn't put any care or thought into the plan. Friar Lawrence's bad choices already put both Romeo and Juliet in grave danger, just by simply neglecting the letter being
Had he done so, he could have informed Romeo that Juliet was alive, thus he could have prevented Romeo's death. Also, Friar Lawrence did not physically stop Juliet's suicide; he simply said "Come, come away... I'll dispose of thee among a sisterhood of nuns"(V. iii. 154-157), and ran away. Had he not been so hasty, he could have realized that the consequences of being caught trespassing are less punitive than those of abandoning Juliet. In fact, Friar Lawrence knew that if he abandoned Juliet, she likely would have committed suicide, because she threatened to so in the past "...And with this knife I'll help it presently"(IV. i. 54). Furthermore, he planned on solving the family feud with the marriage "...To turn your household's rancour to pure love"(II. iii. 92), but he did not make any arrangements to inform Montague and Capulet that he married Romeo and Juliet; he simply disappeared. Had he explained the situation to Montague and Capulet, at any time before the catastrophe, they would have trusted the friar, a holy man who everyone respected, and they would have hopefully dissolved their family feud. They did so in the end after the friar was forced to explain (V. iii). In brief, Friar Lawrence should have been more proactive, and he should have stepped in at the right time.
Although Romeo asked the Friar to marry him and Juliet, he did not force Friar Lawrence to comply, so the Friar could have refused, ultimately allowing the children to rethink their choice of marriage that could have a negative outcome. Furthermore, Friar Lawrence’s plan was poorly organized, as his actions were impulsive. For instance, when he gave Juliet the potion to temporarily anesthetize her, the potion could have “subtly hath ministered to have [her] dead”
Friar did this when “But come young waverer, come, go with me. In one respect I’ll thy assistant be, For this alliance may so happily prove turn your household rancor into pure love (2.3.95-99)”. This shows that Friar Lawrence was irresponsible and was supposed to give Romeo positive advice and to not marry Juliet, who’s family is the rival of Montague. Despite Friar Lawrence’s good intentions of bringing both families together after Romeo and Juliet's marriage, he was wrong and his bad decision contributed to Romeo and Juliet's death. To add on, Juliet was in a crisis because she did not want to be married to Paris and would do anything to be with Romeo.
People may say Romeo is to blame for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet. Others may say the parents or the nurse are to blame, but Friar Lawrence is to blame for the deaths. He may seem like a friar who only wants two kids to get married and make peace, but under the surface, he wants no one to know what he did and wants to destroy all evidence. First of all, in Romeo and Juliet, Friar Lawrence gives both Romeo and Juliet the idea. That happens in Act 2, scene 3, when Romeo first meets Friar Lawrence.
If Friar did not go through with the young teens plans, their lives would not end the way they did. If the Friar acted more like the adult he is, Romeo and Juliet would be in much less danger. For example, Friar Lawrence immediately gives Juliet an idea when she comes to him expressing that she would rather kill herself than marry Paris, the boy that Juliet’s family is forcing her to marry. He instructs her to take the vial at night and to make sure her Nurse, who has taken care of Juliet her whole life, is not with her. As said by Friar Lawrence, “Hold, then. Go home, be merry, give consent To marry Paris. Wednesday is to-morrow. To-morrow night look that thou lie alone… Take thou this vial, being then in bed, Take thou this vial, being then in bed, And this distilled liquor drink thou off; stiff and stark and cold, appear like death” (4.1. 95). This response by Friar to Juliet is crucial because it shows how he immediately listens to her without thinking beforehand. Friar explains all of the effects of death, which slightly scares Juliet. He’s also not one hundred percent sure she will wake up, which also adds to her sceptical thoughts. The immaturity of Friar Lawrence made a large impact on Romeo and Juliet’s
Friar Lawrence listens and then contemplates helping Romeo and Juliet wed, but in his final decision the only outcome he sees is the one where the two families come together and stop feuding. Friar Lawrence was not in love, his judgment was not clouded unlike Romeo and Juliet because, “love can look for all the world like mental illness.(it) prompts out-of-character behavior”(Dupler 1). With that in mind, he was also the only adult involved in the issue. Friar Lawrence has no excuse for his poor decision-making. He needed to consider what bad outcomes could occur from the whole situation as well as the good, but he failed to do so.
He also knew that Romeo was deeply in love with Juliet and would do anything to be with her alive or dead, which should have made him think more logically about his plan. Another example is in Act 5, Scene 3 he leaves Juliet there at her tomb while Romeo is dead and she is still alive she could have convinced her to come with her and she wouldn't have killed herself but no he didn't want to get into trouble or risk it. These examples show why Friar Lawrence is the most to blame for Romeo and Juliet's death; he had many opportunities to make the situation right but always chose the wrong options and made horrible
Friar Lawrence is to blame because he is the one who married Romeo and Juliet, He gave Juliet a potion, and he made the plan for Juliet to take the potion and fake her own death. In Act 4, Scene 1, Line 93, Friar Lawrence says to Juliet, “Take thou vial being then in bed.” In the above quote from the play, Friar Lawrence is giving juliet a
Others may say Friar Lawrence is to blame because he was mischievous and selfish because he supported the secret marriage by saying, “There’s one reason I’ll assist you, this marriage could have the happy result of turning your families hatred into pure love” (Shakespeare 2.3.95). Friar Lawrence has been helping sneak Romeo and Juliet around the whole play. When Romeo came to him, he decided he would secretly marry the two and their mischievous actions never ended. Throughout the play, he makes multiple decisions to help them keep their secret of being together. Although Friar Lawrence's manipulative actions played a small role in the deaths of Romeo and Juliet, he is not most to blame for the deaths because he is not the one who put this tragedy into action.
Ava Brown Ms.DeVisser English 1 18 March 2024 Friar Lawrence knew his plans would end up in devastating deaths. He is to blame for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet. Friar Lawrence is the main cause of all of the horrible things that happened. He was attempting to save Juilet's love, but it went terribly wrong. The plan was to save Juliet till Romeo could get to her, that's not how it happened.
This shows the level of urgency that Friar Lawrence is giving Romeo and Juliet to get this marriage done quickly. In this quote, Friar Lawrence says he does not trust them alone until they are married. Friar also wants to get this done quickly because he does this in secret without the parents knowing about it, because Friar Lawrence decided to marry Romeo and Juliet they wanted to run away together. Secondly, Friar Lawrence made a terrible plan because there was no fall back or plan B. In case anything went wrong, everybody in the plan also didn’t know what was going to happen.
In the matter of marriage between two young adults, he should've been more prudent and helped take responsibility and guide them through instead of agreeing to this sudden choice. Friar Lawrence knew they did not have permission from their parents and knew that this was a secret that should not be kept. Friar Lawrence left his responsibilities as spiritual director and guide. Not only neglecting his responsibility in his role as a friar, he also ignores his responsibility as an adult. When Juliet comes to him in despair and in need to keep her from getting married to Paris, the friar hands her poison and says, “And, if thou dar’st, I’ll give thee remedy” (4.1.77).
Friar Lawrence is the main person to blame for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet.
Friar Lawrence is a valuable person in the book Romeo and Juliet. He offers advice and helps tries to help Juliet find a way out of marriage. He is a wise and sympathetic man. He is always looking out for people in need. When Romeo comes to Friar Lawrence because Romeo thinks he is in love with Juliet. Friar Lawrence takes his opinion into consideration, and tries to help him out, at the best of his abilities. Some critics argue whether or not it it was his fault for their death. It was truly his fault. Friar Lawrence is guilty for the death of Romeo and Juliet is because he gave Juliet the potion, he knew how Romeo would react the way he did, and he had left Juliet by herself when she found out Romeo was dead.
Friar Lawrence was the most responsible for the death of Romeo and Juliet in several ways. He was just out of his mind. He made not only one mistakes, but many mistakes that all caused Romeo and Juliet's death. First of all, he made one major mistake that he could have prevent. He trusted a teenage girl, Juliet. Teenagers aren’t stabilize, and the most scaring thing is that most of them don’t think of the consequences of love. Friar gave her fake-death poison. This is crazy! This decision was a very poor choice on the Friar's behalf. Here, he shows his irresponsibility by saying, "If... thou hast the strength of will