Encouraging expression of feeling. Children that have been abused who have suffered may have kept their emotions blocked by locking them away. By been able to express them will give them the opportunity to express how they feel giving a feeling of relief. A child or young person will feel loss of control in situations due to feeling that where once blocked away. This will make them very strong individuals because of what they have been through. Improving self-image will be a very hard thing to change in a child or young person that has been abused as it means helping them in developing a more positive view of them self’s and before this can be done it means addressing other underlying problems. An abused child may feel they deserved or allowed the abuser to abuse them so lots of reassurance and support is need from people around them and also professionals that can help rebuild their self-image and keep them heading in the right direction. Building self-esteem and confidence. This can be done by professionals by encouraging the abused child or young person and praising them when they have done well. Praise may be something that has not been done a lot in the child or young person’s life so traumatic events need a great deal of positive …show more content…
This could be the first contact that a child or young person may make if they are at risk of abuse or have been abused. There are organisations like the NSPCC who can put the child in contact with professionals that can put a stop to abuse happening. The NSPCC sate that; “We work directly with children and families in over 40 service centres across the UK. We collaborate with frontline professionals and researchers to find innovative solutions and evaluate what works. And we can help you find the latest policy, practice, research or news - whether you're researching a particular therapy or preparing a court report.” (NSPCC,
If you suspect a child is being abused you would firstly need to report your concerns to your manager, you would need to explain why you believe the child is at risk. The manager will then get in touch with social services to express their concerns for the child’s welfare and then follow that up in writing within 48 hours. Next Social Services will work with the manager to decide on a plan of action for the child and then an initial assessment would need to be completed. If social services decide that the matter does not need urgent action they would then work alongside the appropriate agencies to decide the next steps for the case. If social services decide that urgent action is needed they would firstly have an immediate discussion with the police and other agencies, they would then seek
In an emergency, if you think the person is being abused and is at the risk of being harmed and needs immediate police protection, call the police 999 or contact adult social care helpline on 0300 200 1005 or child line 0800 111 11.
Being abused as a child greatly damages the way one views oneself and others because abuse is mentally taxing and leads to lowered self-worth and unhealthy relationships. Moreover, being abused as a child is greatly damaging to one’s self-esteem, causing confidence issues
Guidelines: Working Together to Safeguard Children 2010, What to do if you’re worried that a child is being abused 2006,
If the signs of abuse is not detected in time it can leave negative traits and will hinder the child’s adult abilities. This can include the child repeat what they with through as a child and committing the same crime to another child or they can commit murder or suicide. Preventions and interventions have to be near in order for healing and rebuilding to occur, and the workers who work around these children can be the ones to prevent this from happening or continuing to happen.
After a child has been abused they will have a low amount of confidence and self-esteem so a good strategy to build this back up would be to set up a game where the children have a piece of paper which they draw a tree and leaves on, and on each leaf they write something good about themselves on, this will help child to really think about what they really like about themselves and helps them focus on that rather than the bad stuff which has happened to them. The negatives of this game is that some children may feel uncomfortable or embarrassed about writing good points down as a group so it may be best to work alone. This strategy can also be developed for an older age group, if you have an under confident
Child abuse is more than bruises and broken bones. While physical abuse might be the most visible, other types of abuse, such as emotional abuse and neglect, also leave deep, lasting scars. (Help guide.org). The earlier abused children get help, the greater chance they have to heal and break the cycle—rather than perpetuating it. There is a myth that only bad people abuse their children. (Help guide.org) But the fact is while it 's easy to say that only "bad people" abuse their children, it 's not always so black and white. Not all abusers are intentionally harming their children. Many have been victims of abuse themselves, and don’t know any other way to parent. Others may be struggling with mental health issues or a substance abuse
Therefore, these children most often have issues with low self-esteem and unworthy feelings of self (Feist, et al., 2013). As adults, these individuals tend to migrate towards others similar to their childhood abusers (Feist, et al., 2013). Therefore, these survivors must take the initial steps to understanding their pain resulting in a positive restructuring of relating to others and gaining self-worth (Feist, et al.,
Practitioners and professionals working with children on a daily basis are in a good position to notice changes in a child's or young person’s behaviour which may be a possible sign of abuse. Children or young people may also confide in practitioners or allege that abuse has taken place.
As can be seen there are many different organisations involved when there is any suspicion that a child may have been abused or actually harmed.
Some other effects of being physically abused are problems controlling their emotions; they are less competent
As children our world often revolves around our parents. This is because parents are our source of safety and security, of love and understanding, of nurturance and support. A child experiencing abuse develops strategies that become coping mechanisms. These coping mechanisms enable day-to-day functioning and help the child detach from the emotional and physical pain of events, especially when the abuse continues over a long
When a child experiences emotional abuse, the wounds run skin deep. Kids who suffer repeated trauma feel lonely, scared, worthless and unloved, which is exactly the opposite of how children should feel. Abused children often become broken, hollow and bitter, with mental consequences that last long after the physical wounds have healed. The emotional stress it puts on children is tremendous.
Because of the depiction made within the media, I also assumed that victims of childhood trauma were only able to overcome through the use of therapeutic care. Therapeutic care is often depicted as the only option that victims use that will ensure that they do not fall into a state of depression or begin to abuse drugs. It is rare to see movies where they are promoting social relationships as a bonus to the use of therapeutic services. Although it is not often depicted, social relationships do help in the quest to overcome the horrors of childhood trauma. Social relationships are any form of bonds created between a person and their
Children who have been abused are left with more than just physical scars. They have many psychological, emotional, and behavioral problems as well. Their social lives are affected dramatically, and they suffer lifelong effects. (Lambert) Children tend to