Parenting is very challenging and there are many flaws but great reward to it. There are many struggles in parenting and in To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee Atticus Finch has a very good parenting style. One example of Atticus having a good parenting style is when he tells Jem ”you hold your head high and be a gentlemen.Whatever she says to you, it's your job to not to let her make you mad.”(lee,133) he is teaching him to have patience and not get upset quickly Another reason Atticus is a good parent is because he is a good role model he doesn't hate and he respects everyone. An example in the book is when he was talking about the Tom Robinson robinson case he said “if i cant hold my head up in town””i couldn't even tell Jem
In the case of to Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee crafts a clear idea of family dynamic between the main characters, using the parent-child relationship between Atticus, Jem, and Scout as the main example. Atticus, who raised Scout and Jem as a single parent, passes his morals to his children in order to help them see the world in a more productive and open minded way. While talking to Scout about how to better get along with people, Atticus explains to her that “ ‘[you] never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… until you climb into his skin and walk around in it’ “ (Lee 39). This advice from Atticus affects Scout and her outlook on how she has dealt with others, and this change is how her family, mainly Atticus, impacts her and makes her a better person. This family influence also applied to Jem. For Example, when Bob Ewell dies and Heck Tate is trying to explain to Atticus why Jem should not come forward as guilty, Atticus tells Heck Tate that he needs Jem to be treated fairly: “ ‘If this things hushed up, it would be a simple denial to Jem of the way I've raised him. Sometimes I think I’m a total failure of a parent, but I’m all they've got. Before Jem looks at anyone else he looks at me, and I’ve tried to live so that I can look squarely back at him…” (Lee 366). Atticus wants Jem to be treated like an adult because Atticus raised Jem to take responsibility for his actions, and although he questions how he raised Jem and Scout, he wants to stay committed to what he is trying to teach them. This family relationship shows how Atticus taught his children, but also
Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird depicts Atticus Finch as a good father to his children due to his sense of fairness, his teaching, and his honesty. Atticus depicts fairness by treating his children and all others with respect and understanding. He teaches his children important life lessons and prepares them for when they go out into the world, and he sets a good example by always being honest. To be a good father, these are three very important qualities to possess.
It is difficult to define what makes a good father, but Atticus’s unconditional love for his children is admirable. In Harper Lee’s, To Kill a Mockingbird, Atticus is portrayed as a good father with many good qualities. However, like any human, he is not perfect. He does has some flaws. Atticus was portrayed as an amazing father, however, he did possess few bad qualities as well.
After reading this section of the book, if I could ask the author a question, I would ask her "How does Atticus ' parenting style contribute to the development of the plot?". I would ask her this question because based off what I have read thus far the novel shows Atticus to be a man about equality and justice and he seeks to instill these virtues and values in his children. This makes me wonder why the author chose this parenting style and if it has something to do with the future development of the plot and if this parenting style will pay off in times of conflict within the novel considering the day and age the novel is taking place in.
Mrs. Alexandra, from my understanding, a good parent is one who creates a safe nurturing environment for a child to grow up in, displays characteristics of a positive role model, and is an active part of a child’s life. (Atticus, look at Scout and Jem affectionately ) Good parents provide moral guidance, sets limitations, and implements consequences for a child’s behavior. (Atticus, use a ruler and slap it in your hand looking at Scout and Jem symbolizing a Spanking as punishment) Atticus is a very effective parent to Scout and Jem. I know he is constantly working; but rest assured, his children are his primary concern and he loves them very much. (Atticus, hug Scout and Jem or do something showing your love <3) Atticus finds time for his
Research shows that children are more susceptible to commit crimes, fail in maintaining long lasting relationships and develop depression as well as other psychological disorders from the effects of bad parenting. In fact, many people grow up treating others the same way their parents have treated them with reference to their parents’ values, behaviours and attitudes. Harper Lee, an American author, expressed her childhood experiences in Alabama through writing the novel, To Kill a Mockingbird. In this novel Harper Lee highlights the prevailing racist attitudes that existed in Alabama in the 1930s. Lee does this by having the parenting style of Atticus, and its impact on his children, stand in contrast to these prevailing racist attitudes. In To Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee conveys that Atticus Finch is a great parent because he is not a hypocrite, he has a sense of fairness and he has good morals and values.
But on the contrary Atticus teaches his kids amazing life lessons So in my apinan atticus is a bad father! He may not do all of the father things like roughhousing, hunting, fishing, he won't let jem have a gun, and won't play football with him. “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it.” But a good father and doesn't have to be fun. In my mind a good father should love it's kid, look after them, give them what they need, have their backs, and to teaches them the ways of life.
Growing up happens during the magical times of freedom given to children in their early years. Wise parents discern when freedom is necessary for their children, are very clear about their expectations, and determine fitting consequences for actions out of line. Harper Lee personifies this role of a wise and caring parent in the father figure of her novel To Kill a Mockingbird. Atticus Finch, a character made to mirror the author’s own father, is a lawyer and a well-respected citizen of his Southern Alabama town. Through Atticus, Harper Lee establishes a standard of good and evil, developing the theme of morality during his interactions. Atticus establishes right from wrong in most every relationship, especially with his children, his
In the past century, there have been many great novels written. One of which is Harper Lee's, 'To Kill a Mockingbird'. In the novel it introduces a prominent character who not only was a good father but also a well respected, and compassionate man. This person is Atticus Finch. Through all the struggles and pressures, he stands strong as a very positive father figure, making sure to educate his children with important values including equality, bravery, and knowledge.
Parenting, especially good parenting, can be defined in many different ways. Askmen.com tells us that a good dad, “makes all the difference in a child's life. He's a pillar of strength, support and discipline”. The main character in Harper Lee’s To Kill A Mockingbird exemplifies this “good dad” perfectly. Atticus Finch, the father of Jem and Scout, teaches his children to be respectful and courageous, while giving them freedom and independence. Atticus uses life lessons and first hand experience to guide his children through the right and wrongs of life and the tough situations that they are in. Through this, he gains the respect of his children and the community around him. Atticus is a good father because he teaches his kids how to live life for themselves and for everyone around them.
While many may view a family as a mother and a father raising a few children, Atticus Finch proves that a family doesn’t have to fit the mold to flourish. In To Kill a Mockingbird, Atticus raises his two children, Jem and Scout, after his wife passed away. Just because Atticus isn’t married, doesn't mean he isn’t able to provide for his children physically, emotionally, and mentally. Miss Maudie comments on his parenting by saying, “Atticus Finch is the same in his house as he is on the public streets” (Lee 61). Atticus is a good parent for his children because he is able to set an example without remarrying. Scout and Jem learn to be honest, kind, and respectful to everyone from Atticus. Scout, the novel’s narrator, doesn’t feel any sense of emptiness by not having a mother to raise her. The Finch’s may not be a traditional family, but Atticus’s parenting shows that they are able to be successful and happy.
What defines a good parent? Who defines a good parenting style? Society, through parenting books and magazines, has discussed this at length, and there are obviously varied opinions. There are certain attributes that are generally used consistently to define a good parenting style. It is not discipline or respect, but the characteristics that stand out for a good parent are trust, love, listening and understanding. Love gives confidence and makes people what they want to be. In Harper Lee’s book “To Kill a Mockingbird”, these key attributes are used to define the parenting style of Atticus, the father of the 2 children, Jem and Scout. I believe that the author has defined a good parent as someone who loves his/her children unconditionally, communicates openly with them, someone who is there for them, some one who teaches good morals and values, and someone who shows them right from wrong. Harper Lee has intelligently demonstrated these characteristics by contrasting the parenting styles of Atticus (the good parent) vs. Bob Ewell, who plays the role of the antagonist in the book, and is portrayed as a bad parent. Both of these men are single parents, and the book therefore does not have much opportunity to view the role of the mother in the upbringing of the children. To illustrate this, the author has cleverly used the examples of 2 women, Calpurnia and Aunt Alexandra, to share her thoughts on the importance of a woman’s role in a child’s life. Though these women
Parenting, lauded as one of the most difficult jobs in the world, means constantly being under the scrutiny of others, including your children’s friends. This is no different for the parenting styles of Atticus Finch, Bob Ewell, and Walter Cunningham, three parents from Harper Lee’s critically acclaimed novel To Kill A Mockingbird. Three different parentings styles led to three different types of children: the curious minded, the rascals, and the respectable, showing that how a parent treats their child and others in their lives does matter.
Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (New International Version, 1st Corinthians 11:1). (5) As Paul states this to all Christians, this is very much how Harper Lee, the author of “To Kill A Mockingbird,” portrays Atticus and how he lives his life in the novel. (4) Being born in Monroeville, Alabama, in 1928, Harper Lee, the daughter of a practicing lawyer, would use her father’s profession and her experiences in her hometown as the basis for her renowned book, “To Kill A Mockingbird.” Atticus, Lee’s main character in the book, teaches his children, Jem and Scout throughout the book, the principles of repaying evil for evil, such as his kind attitude towards Mrs. Dubose. He also discusses and shows them how to face a grim situation with a optimistic attitude, doing this by explaining Mrs. Dubose’s strength as she slowly dies. (3)Finally, he instructs his children about the value of putting others first ahead of yourself, such as looking out for Mayella Ewell and letting her father, Mr. Ewell, harshly treat him instead of her. Atticus's lessons, avoiding repaying evil for evil, staying secure in a nasty situation, and setting other’s interests above your own, are effective ways of parenting because it
Atticus is a great parent. He does many things that make him a great parent such as, being respectful, giving great advice, and he is very caring. To begin with, Atticus does not expect the respect of his children but earns it, this is shown many times, but the best example is when he tells Scout “We’ll go on reading as we always have.” (pg.41) he is showing he respects Scout because he believes she is smart enough to read and agrees more with Scout than her teacher. Secondly, he gives them great advice, when Scout is upset about her teacher telling her not to read, Atticus tells her that she will get along with people better if she can climb into their skin and walk around in it. He makes her understand what is happening in her life and resolves her issue. Lastly, Atticus is very caring.