Masculinity is a topic discussed frequently in the world today. Many argue that it has become toxic, while others argue we may not even have enough masculinity. The topic is always evolving, since the definition and others’ perception of it always vary. It has become evident that everyone shares a different perspective on masculinity, as I have discussed this topic multiple times with my peers. For me, the definition of masculinity is very situational, and it is hard to set a certain phrase to define it. But I believe it is possible to create a working definition of it to instill into any man’s life. The readings have also given me a much clearer idea of what type of masculinity I would like to instill in my life. Throughout this past semester, …show more content…
This unmasculine response to making fun of your friends is simply because of insecurity. So, it is evident that healthy masculinity can be correlated to being secure with oneself. Since we now know what a strong foundation for healthy masculinity looks like, it will be much easier to build a definition. I believe another great example of healthy masculinity can be found in Homer’s “The Odyssey”. Throughout the story, Odysseus, the main character, protects his family and his men. I believe this is a must-have trait for healthy masculinity. A man must be willing to protect himself at all costs, even if it is not in his best interest. At one point in The Odyssey, Odysseus and his men find themselves on the Island of the Lotus Eaters. His men quickly become entranced by the magical flowers this island’s people have to offer. A typical man would leave his men behind, especially if they were on the same quest home that Odysseus was on. But Odysseus is determined to return his men to the ship, prioritizing their safety. This was quite admirable of Odysseus. A man who longs for home goes out of his way to protect the lives of his
Therefore to restore order Homer uses this symbolic reverse of the sexes. This in part disrupts the norm in order for peace to be restored. Without Odysseus experiencing the limitations of his masculinity, order within Ithaca and his family would not be restored. On his journey back to his native land, Odysseus experiences many cultures who’s social order is a complete reversal of his own. This includes variations of where women are placed within their society as well as their communal, sexual and political roles. In book 10 when Odysseus is on Circe’s island, his men flock around him like calves about their mother. This symbolically makes the men feel like they have regained Ithaca, however Odysseus is not Ithaca. When Odysseus journeys to the underworld he realizes that his masculine identity depends not only on his heroic duties and warlike actions, but also on the people who surround him like his wife, son, mother and father. When talking to Achilles in the underworld, Odysseus learns that because these warrior’s identity is directly associated with their masculinity their identity basically disappears in death. Death is therefore the emasculating form of loss of oneself to these characters. Since his masculinity is gone while he resides in the underworld, he learns that his brave and heroic actions and everything he fought for does not hold any significance in this
In the Odyssey, Odysseus is loyal to his men while his men are loyal to him, making a good relationship. In the beginning, it summarizes the journey made by Odysseus and his men. It says, “while he [Odysseus] fought only to save his life, to bring his shipmates home” (Homer 895). This quote shows that Odysseus is fighting to save his shipmates’ lives and bring them back home to their families. By doing this, Odysseus is
A common theme throughout The Odyssey and ancient Greece is the prejudice against someone based on their sex or gender, also known as sexism. The book revolves around Odysseus, king of Ithaca and Trojan War warrior, as he embarks on a prolonged journey home. This journey would normally take a few weeks, however was extended to span over a decade due to displeased gods. As Odysseus struggles to arrive home safely, his son Telemachus and wife Penelope are left to fend off suitors competing for the throne of Ithaca and Penelope’s hand in marriage. In The Odyssey, Homer portrays women as weak and in need of a husband while he portrays men as dominant and independent; his portrayal was a common perspective in Greek society, however, it furthered
In this paper I will be discussing how both males and females were portrayed in the book The Odyssey. While reading the story I was not surprised to see that men were treated as being superior to women. First I will discuss the roles of Odysseus and Telemachus as strong male roles throughout the story. Secondly I will discuss the role of Penelope and the goddess Athena. I will provide examples showing how males were seen as superior to women. I will do my best to paint a picture of how a model Greek male and female would of behaved during this time. If there were any instances where either a male or female violated the rules of behavior according to those times, I will discuss the situation that caused them to act differently. Lastly I will
In Homer’s the Odyssey, females are displayed as meaningless and valueless to their society and were only seen as unnecessary stay at home housewife’s. The Odyssey illustrates an epic poem of a man named Odysseus and his crew sailing to the island Ithaca and come across dilemmas that lead them to other islands and other complications. Odysseus’s crew dies on their voyage home and while Odysseus survives the obstacles thrown at him, he comes home to suitors taking over his household and wife. Thinking Odysseus is dead the suitors try swooning over his wife to take his house and land. With the help of the goddess Athena and his son Telemachus, Odysseus successfully kills the suitors and retakes his place in his home and wife.
Defining Masculinity is what this essay is about. In society, masculinity means being brave, strong, dominant, have a higher power, which is what what most men are expected to have. Most men are raised a certain way, completely different than how girls are raised. Men are brought up to be brave, to be strong, to be hard workers, to “be a man.” and take whatever is getting thrown at them.
Without this trait, Odysseus would not be very honorable. As mentioned before, after the Trojan war his men were pillaging the city. Odysseus wants to warn his men and be faithful, but to no avail. On his first embark after the Trojan war, he and his men encountered the lotus eaters. After 3 of his men subdue to the Lotus, they are unwanting to return to their quests.
1. In “Many Boys Today Define Masculinity Negatively”, the author Leonard Sax writes about how the meaning of masculinity has become redefined in a negative way. Sax states that the phrase “Be a man!” didn’t always mean to not be feminine, the phrase originally meant to be courteous, respectful, and competent. The original intention of this phrase to have boys emulate the wholesome family men in popular culture but in recent years the men portrayed in pop culture have become less principled. This change in role models has led masculinity to be seen as a negative aspect in society today. Sax believes that the best solution for this issue is to give young boys the guidance they need by connecting them with gentlemen from past generations who actually learned what it meant to be a man.
Being “Masculine is something that most of us, even women are very familiar with. When we think of masculinity we think of toxic masculinity or being hyper aggressive, non-emotional, hypersexual, and violent. For society, that is what masculinity is, toxic. In Jamie Lake’s I Got You, there were at least three different representations of masculinity. I believe that Jamie Lake gave
Masculinity is a topic that has been debated in our society extensively, through research as well as in informal settings. Many wonder what it means to be masculine, and if we can really assign a definition to such a subjective term. After all, shouldn't one's own perception be the determinant of what constitutes masculinity? This self-construction would be the ideal in our society, but unfortunately, it represents a false belief. Masculinity has certain characteristics assigned to it by our culture. In this paper I will explore the many facets of masculinity and demonstrate how certain beliefs pertaining to it are perpetuated in our society. I will also uncover many of the contradictions between society's assigned definition of
Though this is the case, Braudy states that over time and throughout history, the definition of ‘masculinity’ has shifted in response to the prevailing social and cultural demands (Braudy, xiii). Because the concept of masculinity is continuously being redefined, the concept as whole is not stagnant, and is evolving parallelly the more society as a whole
Masculinity is a topic that has been debated in our society extensively, through research as well as in informal settings. Many wonder what it means to be masculine, and if we can really assign a definition to such a subjective term. After all, shouldn't one's own perception be the determinant of what constitutes masculinity? This self-construction would be the ideal in our society, but unfortunately, it represents a false belief. Masculinity has certain characteristics assigned to it by our culture.
In today’s society, masculinity has changed throughout time. Fast forward one hundred years ago, masculinity is defined as being strong and having a good paying job. But as the world is changing so is the representation of manliness. You don’t have to show your dominance over men or women today, but you should support your family nowadays and we have all been brainwashed by the thought of masculinity from our ancestors. As men our reputation is always being valued but now it isn’t so much about our reputation but about caring for one another and especially for our families. Perspective of manhood is also a significant factor in portraying what masculinity is in the eyes of other people. Masculinity has been shown through money, appearance, and providing protection for your family members but as we shift into the modern world, masculinity is not seen as displaying the most discipline but caring for one another by taking out some of your time to help one another. Throughout the paper, I will be writing about my interviews from a broad spectrum of ages from one of my younger sisters to my dad with not friends not at Seb’s in between so I can get what it really means to be a man from all ages.
Masculinity can be described as a set of attitudes, roles or traits related to men. It develops by the social and biological parameters and factors. However, it could be exhibited by males as well as females, depending upon the development of masculine traits in them. The main characteristics of masculinity include bravery, impartiality, freedom, and firmness which depend upon the locality and background of the individual, as well as the community and traditions. An extremism of negative traits of masculinity is disregarded in the society. This concept changes according to the history and traditions of a locality. Usually, the manhood norms include strength, non- emotional behavior, the struggle for attainment of success and status,
Masculinity, a seemingly simple concept. Yet, when examined more closely, it is clear that masculinity is constantly changing in its definition as well as in its most basic essence. Throughout the years, one can see this evolution firsthand by looking back at the men who have been portrayed in popular media in the United States of America. From the suave Don Draper types of the 1950s to the more casual, educated, and easygoing men- with perfectly chiseled abs, of course- that are portrayed in media today, the difference is clear. This drastic, yet unsurprising, shift in ideals, as well as the exponential increase of media consumed every day, has led to a change in how “masculinity” is perceived, as well as how it is enforced by society in the modern day. Alarmingly, this trend has led to the birth of so-called “toxic masculinity”, a bastardization of the original ideas behind masculinity which has created an enormous, detrimental effect on society as a whole. As defined in the article The Difference Between Toxic Masculinity and Being a Man, toxic masculinity is “manhood as defined by violence, sex, status, and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of manliness, where strength is everything… where sex and brutality are yardsticks by which men are measured,” (O’Malley) This is a clearly displayed truth, and it’s astounding to see how even from a young age boys are taught not to show emotions other than anger, conditioned to believe that being “like a girl” is the worst possible