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Examples Of Grief In Catcher In The Rye

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Most readers who've read A Catcher in the Rye would say that it's a novel about grief. It is said that each person has their own way of coping with grief but mostly everyone goes through a process known as the five stages of grief. This stages consists of Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance. In A Catcher in the Rye, the main character, Holden Caulfield represents one of these stages through out the book. Holden manages to bypass all these stages and finally accept what kind of person he is and who he wants to be.

Denial is a defense mechanism used when a person doesn't accept the truth or reality of a situation so, they don't acknowledge what's happening around them. Since they choose to not acknowledge the situation, …show more content…

They will think of any possibility that could bring their loved one back to them. They would do anything to be able to hold, see or hear the person that they had lost. This leads to the third stage of grief, bargaining, which means that the person implores their loved one to come back or god to bring them back. Holden begs Allie to catch him and not let him fall which means that Holden is close to closing it because his brother is dead. Depression comes shortly after someone is losing their mind. Holden shows that a lot of things depress him through out the book. He doesn't like being around sick people because they depress him. " It was very depressing. I'm not too crazy about sick people anyway." What was another sign that Holden was dealing with depression was his unwanted feeling of growing up and joining the adult world. By Letting himself fall into adulthood, Holden is letting the relationship he had with his brother as kids go and he doesn't want to so, he decides he wants to become the catcher in the rye. He wants to catch other kids and himself from falling into the adult world and prevent them from loosing their

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