Ethics In Counseling Ivan C. Brooks Jr. Capella University Suicidal thoughts typical stem from some trauma that one might be subjected to sometime in their lives. Suicide is not the answer but sometimes its what people seek for to obtain closure. I will discuss a situation where a sexual relations what used to rationalize an inappropriate and ethically wrong situation by a counselor. This is taken direct from the text: Dorothy, age 23, seeks counseling from Gerald, an LPC in private practice. Her goal is to work through issues related to the sexual abuse by her stepfather that she had endured when she was a child. After 2 months of counseling, Gerald initiates a sexual relationship with Dorothy. He rationalizes his …show more content…
In listening to Dorothy’s story I will be able to determine where she is emotionally right now (Muller, Caldwell, Hunter 2004). The treatment plan would go as followed: -Dorothy would need to do some research about child sexual abuse so that she will Have a better understanding of what happened, why it happened, and what she should expect from me. -Dorothy would then need to know exactly what happened to her. She would need to be able to verbalize or visual the acts that were committed to her. This will be hard due to the trauma but it will only help with her mental health. -Next Dorothy would need to identify her feelings. It is important to identify and sort out your own feelings about many things. This will take some effort. - Next Dorothy would need to talk about her feelings towards the individual who molested her. Some questions she would need to answer would be: Do you have any negative feelings towards the abuser? What exactly are you angry about? What exactly do you fear? What other unpleasant feelings do you have toward the person who abused you? -Next I would get Dorothy to talk about her feelings towards other people. Dorothy probably blames her mother for not preventing the sexual abuse or is angry with them because they did not stop the abuse from taking place. -Next we would discuss how Dorothy feels about herself. Anytime something like this happens as time progresses she will slowly slip into more self-hate. She will have
Alice talked about her parents failing her when it came to talk about the rape and not providing her with support she needed. Her mother seemed to drag the attention on herself by going into these panic moments, and telling Alice she no longer wants to hear about it. Her father would just shut himself out and go on studying, and sadly was denial at first about Alice being raped. He admitted he could not grasp the concept of how one is raped, but good for him for being there for Alice while she went to court. As for Alice’s older sister, she was there for her, but could have been better at giving her sister ease and being the big sister that she needed to
Although the physical abuse left scars, the verbal abuse was frequently thrown at her. Whether it was from her father, or her classmates she is consistently reminded what an outsider she was.
Following the examinations of Twyla and Roberta’s experience after the assault, one of Twyla’s ending statements constitutes one of the most significant and explicit results of trauma. As the girls by the
A common issue to be brought up during the sessions will be Frank’s abandonment along with his alcohol and drug use, inability to care for others, and all-around selfishness. Frank will experience blame from Fiona and the rest of the family. Fiona’s newfound guardianship of her siblings, and role confusion will be identified and obvious during the counseling sessions. Debbie’s pregnancy will also be brought into the session often, as it was what brought the family to counseling. Debbie will present as silent and unwilling to come to a solution. A common theme of the sessions and counseling may be lack of trust in Frank by Fiona and Debbie. Depending on the result of Debbie’s pregnancy decisions, there may be continuing arguments, disapproval, and triangulation occurring in the subsequent sessions.
3. Stephanie is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) who has decided to start a private practice. As she makes her plans, there are many ethical issues she must
Diana’s parents had an apartment above their garage when Nancy, Ken and the two children lived. Debra’s parents always hung out with “old people,” so Diana spent much of her time with her sister’s family where there were kids her age. Kids and women loved Ken; he was handsome like a young Elvis. He played games with kids who had a great time. While Diana was four to six years old, Ken molested her. She has a spot on a couch to sleep and when she spent the night there, he would come to her in the night and molest her. Once he was playing doctor with all the kids on the bunk beds. Ken put blanket over the bottom bunk and while the boys were playing on the top bunk, Ken molested Diana on the bottom bunk. She got molested every she visited and Ken was there. This
A trait that stands out in the book is the symptom of bodily memories. In Melinda’s case, during a frog dissection in her science class, she remembers the opening up and even says, “She doesn’t say a word. She is already dead. A scream starts in my gut – I can feel the cut, smell the dirt, feel the leaves in my hair.” (81). One of the other symptoms that Melinda has is self-harm. The first time that this is shown in the book, Melinda says this, “I open up a paper clip and scratch it across the inside of my left wrist. Pitiful. If a suicide attempt is a cry for help, then what is this? A whimper, a peep?” (87). Melinda also has a hard time talking to her parents about the rape to which she says, “How can I talk to them about that night? How can I start?” (72). Some victims recover from such a traumatic experience, while others don’t and live a lifetime of depression and must undergo intense therapy. In Melinda’s case, she finds redemption by talking to her parents and the guidance counselor, and putting her faith into her teachers, friends, and her art project at school. Because rape can affect anybody anywhere, everyone should be aware of the circumstances, and how to deal with it.
So she obtains the case files and wants to get Helen’s opinion on the case. At first Helen is reluctant to help because as M.J. Monaham starts to
5. The story, Ellen’s Confession reminds me of why my mother and her generation are so supportive and active with respect to women's rights. Ellen’s mother was basically treated as a slave. Her husband forced her to give up some of her children, he completely ignored her health and was the cause of her worsening physical and mental condition. It was acceptable to sexually abuse her and seemed to just require a prayer to God beforehand . If that was the kind of marriage I had to live in I would most definitely try to avoid it. I also understand that when Ellen’s mother asked her to “never let a man come near you”(6) she could not betray her mothers dying wish and needed to stand up for herself, on principal, in a way her mother could not. Even
REPORTER: The reporter/friend (Becky) called with concerns for the victim, Dorothy. Dorothy has Alzheimer’s, but she can perform her daily ADL’s. According to the reporter, the victim is left by herself all day long; she lives alone. Darlene (daughter) is the victim’s caretaker, and she is responsible for her. There is burned food in the microwave, and the victim is not eating properly. The victim eats strawberry yogurt because no one will fix her anything else. Darlene only buys the victim strawberry yogurt. Darlene brings the victim her medication twice a day. The reporter has discussed the concerns with Darlene, and told her she needs to check on her mother more often. The victim lives on a lake, and the reporter is afraid that she will
(2) She generally concealed her emotion, even when she talked about her experience of abuse and rape. While, she sometimes behaved dramatically and occasionally produced short-lived angry outbursts.
“There’s no place like home.” We all have our own variation of home. Whether it be your parents house, or your 50 year old aunt Barbara‘s house, nothing feels better than going home after being away. Some of us often take advantage of our place we call home, because we want something bigger, or better, but end up realising that home is where we want to be. Because of this, most people run away from “home,” and then, spend all their time trying to get back to what life was like before.
I would keep her strong spirit and her love for others. I would change her situation; I would take her and the rest of the children out of the wretched, agonizing life they've had to live. I would show them the love that God intended for children to have. Dorothy held on even when there was no hope and made something of herself. I believe if she had more capabilities as a child, she would have protected all of the children.
Dorothy is all grown up now and has a kid if her own. She has told her daughter many stories of the mystical land of Oz. Dharma love hearing her mothers stories about Oz and she visited Oz every night in her dreams. She believed in Oz so much and she thought her friends would too, but they made fun of her for believing in this fictional fantasy. She started to think she was crazy herself and began believing less and
This question can be seen as a follow up question of the first. If there are any negative aspects she sees in life, this question will present the details.