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Essay On Gender Norms In The Birthmark

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Imagine living your life and not having control over it; imagine having someone tell you what you could wear, what you are supposed to look like, what you’re supposed to do, and when you’re supposed to do them. Having no control is one of the clear issues in The Birthmark by Nathaniel Hawthorne; Hawthorne writes about female roles/norms in the 19th-century perspective, and I would argue that he adheres to these norms, but also challenges them. Challenging gender norms while adhering to them is a little challenging, but this is exactly what is happening in modern-day society. Many people are challenging gender norms and are pushing for equal rights, but many people (my primary focus on women) are changing their looks, and going under the knife to look a certain way that men will find “attractive,” just like Georgiana did for Aylmer. Gender norms for women are being …show more content…

In Melanie’s song, “Mrs. Potato Head,” we see the lyrics, “Oh Mrs. Potato Head tell me, Is it true that pain is beauty? Does a new face come with a warranty? Will a pretty face make it better? Oh Mr. Potato Head tell me, How did you afford her surgery? Do you swear you'll stay forever? Even if her face don't stay together?” What this song is stating is that a woman feels the urge to go through plastic surgery to get a man to fall in love with her and for him to stay forever. What is even more impacting about this song is that it still isn’t guaranteed that he’ll stay forever because the fear now is that her face might fall apart (like we see on TV when plastic surgery goes wrong). Men still indirectly control a woman’s live—especially their appearance—because society gender norms and standards have structured it for women to be the damsel in distress, and the man being that guy that will save the girl, but it is complicated when the girl can’t attract a

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