Application
There are many ideas from Petersen's book that I can use to apply what I learned to enhance my own interpersonal communication. I will use most of the techniques to help improve relationships and communication with my family members and in the work setting. In the past, when having communication problems, I noticed that what the other person said and what they truly meant may be different. In the future, I will use the decode technique by stating what I heard the person say and then I will ask the person if that is what they meant (Petersen, 2015, p. 62). This technique will be useful to clear up confusion in the communication process both for the listener and speaker.
The play detective technique is an approach I will use by asking questions to help me gain insight into the problems that other people face (Petersen, 2015, p. 86). In the past, I sometimes did not ask questions because I felt that people will share information if they choose to do so. However, I realize now that I should ask questions, not to solve the problem for the other person, but to help the person fully understand all aspects of the situation so that they can find good solutions
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159). Previously, I tried to fix problems for people because I felt that it helped them. After reading this book, I realized that by fixing other people's problems, I actually end up hurting that person because they can suffer from harming their confidence and they may feel like they are being treated as a child (Petersen, 2015, p. 159).
In summary, communication and listening do not come easily to most people. This book allows the reader to learn about communication traps and techniques that can help solve communication problems to ensure that relationships are improved and that work performance can be better in the office
A day in the life of a veterinary technician may include answering clients’ questions, providing written or verbal instructions regarding care of an animal, answering the telephone,
* Body Paragraph #3 - Differentiate appropriate levels of self-disclosure and emotional intelligence in various relationships.
Mrs. Doubtfire is a film that focuses on a marriage going through a divorce. As a result of the divorce Daniel, the father, is only allowed to see his children once a week. In an attempt to spend more time with his children, Daniel disguises as the perfect old English nanny that his wife, Miranda, is looking to hire. As the new nanny, Daniel becomes the perfect father and spouse. In this film not only do you see the many different types of relationships, you also see concepts of interpersonal communication entwined. The first two concepts of interpersonal communication running through the film are those of relationship deterioration and repair. The third concept that is weaved throughout the entire film is that of using humor to reduce
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One of the question that I continued to ask myself about Mr. Petersen is “How was he able to but all of these functions together when it comes to communication and listening”. How was he able to make these correlations with communication, better yet what made his think that all these parts play a valuable role in his book? Now some of the questions that also had when reading this book is “Stephanie do you really pay attention to others like I say I do, and how in world do people still like to talk to me?”. Another question that pops into my mind a lot is “How are we supposed to take everything that I am reading into consideration when I’m trying to communicate with others. How am I supposed to remember all of this and try and become a better listener?”. But I have found out about myself is that I could use the technique code start to actually use my gut, head, and emotions when I’m listening to people, and it can still effect the way that I perceive it. But on the same end of this if I use decode and summarize what they said to me, there won’t be any miscommunication between us. But I can say after reading his book I know have a game to play with my children and husband, so we are able to communicate with each other, “Talker and Listener”. This technique Talker and Listener, will help me as a parent and wife when it comes to my home life, and hopefully someday as a career
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is that when too many people get involved it becomes harder to bring forth the
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