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Early Childhood Immigrants

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From an early age, I felt as if my parents were never there for me, and I had to raise myself. I used to have difficulty in interpreting whether my unconventional upbringing should be appreciated or dreaded, but ultimately it has benefitted me in ways I have just recently realized. Without the intensified emphasis on my self-reliant upbringing, I would not be the sophisticated and independent young adult I am today. I would like to address that being the child of first-generation immigrants is harder than it seems, especially when they have yet to assimilate to modern American values despite being surrounded by them for twenty years. Not only are they stuck in the traditional Turkish lifestyle, but they are ill-informed in regards to basic vocabulary, pronunciation, and mechanics. As a result of this, my older sister and I are forced …show more content…

This unwanted load becomes more irritating when hearing trivial complaints from my more privileged friends, such as their parents packing them the wrong sandwich for lunch, making them sell their own chocolate for fundraisers, or scheduling them for the wrong town to take their SATs. I often wish my friends would spend a day in my life so that they can be grateful for the amount of time and effort their parents devote to them. The most stressful part of my situation is that the level of involvement I receive from my parents sits between negligent and controlling, such as how they yell at me to get

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