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Does Your Mama Know About Me Analysis

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A Sense of Home: The Role of Community in Ceremonies During the late twentieth century, the AIDS epidemic became one of the biggest issues to plague the gay community and is often referred to as an event that helped the community come together as a whole, but in Ceremonies Essex Hemphill writes about the community as fractured and divided. Discussions of race, as well as sexuality, are common topics he discusses in the essays and poetry that make up the book. In one of the essays in the book, “Does your Mama Know?”, Hemphill writes about the gay black man’s role, or lack of a subjective role, in the gay community and discusses the idea of what “home” is for someone that doesn’t quite seem to have a place in any community. It is a topic that …show more content…

In “Does Your Mama Know About Me?”, the speaker is obviously addressing his audience’s mother, but in the poem the speaker is directly speaking to his own mother. Because “In the Life” is a poem, it isn’t always clear who the speaker is exactly while with “Does Your Mama Know About Me?” the voice is more clearly Hemphill’s. So, when the speaker asks “Mother, do you know/I roam alone at night?” it can be read as the speaker being someone that would be in the audience for “Does Your Mama Know About Me?”—because it is a poem, it allows its audience to place themselves in the voice. Both place its reader in a place of questioning his mother about the life he lives. He tells her that he walks alone at night to search for men. In the next stanza, the speaker discusses these same men that he finds at night and states that “some are killers/of sons like me”. The ambiguity of this begs the reader to ask the question how are sons like you being killed? It’s easy to connect this to the AIDS epidemic because Essex Hemphill is a writer that wrote and produced his work during the height of this crisis. He could be referring to men that have the potential to kill him because they carry the virus, but if that’s true, then why is there a need to differentiate the speaker from the killer? If it’s discussing AIDS, then the killer …show more content…

The use of the word “tribe” here, again, alludes his use of the word “tribe” in “Does Your Mama Know About Me?” when describing black men, but in the context of both the essay and the poem it goes to discuss the role that black gay men play in both the gay and black communities. In “In the Life”, he states that this tribe is made up of “warriors and outlaws”, which comes to play by the end of the poem. The end of this poem has the same call-to-arms ring that “Does Your Mama Know About Me?” has, but instead in places the audience as the speaker of the poem instead of giving the role to the speechmaker in the essay. This is why the “If” in the first stanza is important, an “if” rings of hope in that this future is possible. The if here brings you back to the beginning of the poem, where the speaker tells his mother that he roams around at night, but the if states that he hopes to “find freedom in this village”. There is a sense of hope in this sentimentality in that he keeps going out despite the fact that he was lamenting earlier in the poem that there wasn’t a space for him in a community that does not have a space for him. But he states that “I can take it with my tribe”. This “take” rings of a sense of conquering

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