Stated by the famous comedian Kevin Hart “Is everything funny? For me, yes. There’s a positive to every negative. Even my divorce? For me, yes. If you go back and look at it, why it happened or how it happened, there’s something in there that’ll make you laugh.” Although divorce can be considered humorous it has become a serious epidemic. About 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. The purpose of this paper is to discuss how an individual takes part in causing divorce, how society plays a part in divorce, and how can we lessen the situation. When divorce is looked into the odds of success are not all created equal. Education, location, religion and other factors can dramatically affect your odds of remaining married. Divorce many save some people from a bad marriage, but can also debilitate an individual or society.
To start off, what is the role of individuals in causing or perpetuating divorce? People are getting married younger when they are not fully developed and are mature enough to understand the meaning of the vows/commitment they are taking when marrying. They are getting married quicker without truly considering the major issues. Many jump into marriage for all the wrong reasons, for instance being worried that they are running out of time to have children, pressure from friends, family and even, on occasion a surprise proposal can pressure one into saying “Yes.” Factors that are not commonly considered are financial stability which can be referred to role
There is a staggeringly large amount of divorces in the United States (US). In total, the US had a recorded total of 2,140,272 marriages in the year 2014 alone, and of those marriages, 813,862 ended up in divorce or annulment (Center for Disease Control). This means that as recently as 2014, there was a divorce rate of approximately 40%. This supports the statistics that the divorce rate for the US has stayed within 40-50% since the 1970’s (Austin Institute, 2014). While the numbers themselves are important, it is also important that the causes for the high divorce rate be explored, so that it can be known what pitfalls to avoid when participating in such an important union as marriage. There are many causes of divorce in the US such as conflicting gender roles, socioeconomic status, religious conflicts, physical abuse, emotional abuse, alcohol addictions, and many more (Amato & Previti, 2003). This paper will look at many of these reasons, but it will also focus on the differing reasons reported by men and women.
Marriage is the Glue of Society Millions of Americans find out the hardships a divorce brings each year. Although many couples know it can be a long hard road, many still decide it is the best option. In her book “The Case against Divorce” 1989, Diane Medved confesses, “Quite simply, I discovered in my research that the process and aftermath of divorce is so pervasively disastrous-to body, mind, and spirit- that in an overwhelming number of cases, the “cure” that it brings is surely worse than marriages “disease” (664). After a lot of heartache and personal experiences, many newly single people are forming a very similar opinion. It is usually better for a person to try to save their marriage rather than getting a divorce because it is damaging
The Smith family is African American that lives in Saint Louis, Missouri. The family consists of two middle-aged parents having two daughters. The daughters’ names are Aliyah and Sarah. Sarah, the oldest is in eighth grade, and attends a very good middle school. Aliyah the youngest, attends the fourth grade at a good elementary school. . In this household both parents work. The mother is a nurse at Barnes hospital, while the father is a computer technician at a company. After many issues the parents eventually divorced about three years back. The father re-married last year to a young woman that has a four-year-old son. Overall, the family social-economic developments are that they are very well off living in a safe suburban neighborhood.
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In society today, there are many issues we face without any direction. Divorce is a leading problem that impacts families and communities around the world. In the United States, a divorce occurs every 30 seconds, and this is expected to increase over time. What if there was a way to prevent these rates, or even stop them from happening? What we know, is that divorce is very problematic; however, brushing up on its history, focusing on the present state, and learning how it has affected society can help many prevent it.