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Deconstructing Attachment Theory

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Attachment Theory, as many other theories concerning child development, was originally created to help us understand the patterns of how children normally learn to negotiate interpersonal relationships. It has proven of great explanatory value in helping us understand the role of relationships with caregivers in the socialization process and has had important practical applications for improving orphanages and foster care. Applying it to children with disabilities, though, is not a straightforward process, as the original form of Attachment Theory makes certain ableist assumptions about, for example, the ability of children to use senses such as sight and hearing to identify individual caregivers. In applying Attachment Theory to infants with …show more content…

Such critiques argue that Attachment Theory acts to reinforce patriarchy, heteronormativity, and fixed gender roles. Bowlby's work, especially, emphasized the importance of the mother in the third stage of infant development, an outgrowth of his own background in Freudian psychology. While more recent work has taken into account the possibility of a male figure or non-biological parent becoming the primary attachment figure, this still replicates a patriarchal structure in which "breadwinner" and "caregiver" figures are consider distinct roles within a nuclear family. Much of queer and feminist theory is concerned not just with breaking down the gender identities of those roles but of questioning the ideological structure in which the roles are embedded. There is no reason why a group of three gay men, for example, could not together provide a warm and nurturing co-parenting environment for an infant. The final area of critique is that Attachment Theory is embedded within a context of ableism and rejection of neurodiversity, a critique that will be discussed after a brief presentation of disability …show more content…

The website of the Society for Disability Studies describes this perspective as one that:

challeng[es] the view of disability as an individual deficit or defect that can be remedied solely through medical intervention or rehabilitation by "experts" and other service providers. Rather ... Disability Studies ... examine[s] social, political, cultural, and economic factors that define disability and help determine personal and collective responses to difference.

The key implication for applying Attachment Theory to the development of infants with disabilities is that we need to be careful to distinguish between "different" and "impaired." On a physical level, for example, one can talk about hearing ranges in terms of the ability to hear certain frequencies at certain decibel levels. While that is a medical "fact," the issue of whether someone inhabits Deaf culture and is a native signer or whether someone inhabits hearing culture and is a native speaker is a social and cultural one. Also, just as infants within the !Kung hunter-gatherer culture of the Kalahari Desert exist in a far different environment than middle class Europeans and may show different developmental patterns, the same is true of infants brought up within hearing and Deaf cultures. Lane (2005) cautions us, for example, in his "Ethnicity,

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