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Deborah Tannen and William Lutz both discuss the difficulty of communicating. Their point of views may be different, but their conclusion is the same. Men and women have difficulties of communicating. Not because the two genders want to be complicated but simply because we don’t realize how or what we’re doing when it’s happening.

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Former New York Yankee, Wally Pip was impressed by my talent. He said that I was the most accomplished man or woman he has ever seen in and out of the sport. Word soon got around that he was impressed and that he liked me

Growing up Latino is difficult, especially with other races giving minorities the disadvantage. Although Latinos are constantly being overlooked, there are certain individuals who stand out in communities exemplifying their true demeanor. Maria Isabel Trevino is an epitome of a diligent citizen who spends her time contributing to the success of others.

There are over six thousand five hundred different languages in the world, not counting the ones we do not recognize as languages. In Deborah Tannen’s, “But What Do You Mean,” Tannen writes about how men and women interact different with each other. Tannen talks about how men and women have different meanings of what is an appropriate way to speak. Tannen explains how women puts others feelings first. In Mindy Kaling’s, “Types of Women in Romantic Comedies Who Are Not Real,” Kaling writes about how media presents romance in a way that is not true. Kaling gives an analysis of how romantic comedies are not real. Kaling writes about different types are woman and romance scenarios. In Mike Rose’s, “Blue-Collar Brilliance,” Rose writes about how

This quote is an important representation of when the author Deborah Tannen first realized that it was very common for anyone in society to judge much more on the women about their clothing then the men. In actuality besides clothing, Tannen also realizes that women no matter how they dress, or what they say or do, are marked in some way. She is explaining to the readers how not only are the men’s styles are unmarked or rather, irrelevant, but how the appearance of men is rarely ever judged.

An illegitimate grandson of Roger II named Tancred claimed the throne quickly. Fearing Joan, who backed the rule of William II’s aunt, Constance, he restricted her movement and took all of her feudal revenue for himself. Joan’s brother, Richard I “Lionheart” of England, stopped in Sicily while on his way to the Holy Land for the Crusade. Richard threatened Tancred for his sister’s release and for her royal dowry. Tancred complied with her release, though he had to compensate for her royal seat (Monte Sant’Angelo) because he would not release it. Joan would return to England after returning from a short pilgrimage to Palestine in 1192.

According to Gwynedd Lloyd in Gender and Education, 42% of women within the white collar work force say that their male supervisors often put them down in ways of verbal and emotional abuse. These women also said previously, that the

Conversation is a ritual every person must encounter throughout their lives in order to function properly with one another in today’s society. However, every individual has a “different idea about what’s appropriate” when approaching someone in any sort of conversation; that is why we are referred to as individuals (Tannen 327). There are thousands of diverse languages to speak to one another with, in fact that means there are thousands of different ways to offend each other with our words. Within those languages there are several contrasting gestures that can offend any single person, such as the amount of times individuals apologize in one meeting, giving criticism too harshly, or thanking someone so often it does not seem genuine. In the article “What Do You Mean,” Deborah Tannen touches upon apologies, criticism, and thank yous in further detail to explain where individuals go wrong within conversation and how they can fix their actions. Individuals find it satisfying to please others by being polite because it is the ‘right’ thing to do, however like myself others need to stand up for themselves and get directly to the point now in order to avoid conflict later in life.

Sandra Cisneros uses indirect characterization to prove the theme of sense of self by directing about Esperanza's actions and thoughts at the beginning to the end of the story by truly realizing who she is in “A Rice Sandwich.” In this vignette, Esperanza sees the kids in the canteen to be special because she gets to go home and eat, but Esperanza then makes an excuse for herself to get herself to believe that eating in the canteen, then “there’d be less dishes to wash,” (Cisneros 44). Though Esperanza’s thoughts, the reader grasps the idea that Esperanza is making excuses for herself to eat in the canteen, and feel special like the students who eat there. The need to feel special can overcome someone and the urge to feel it can make almost

These perceptions however may not be true. According to organizational behavior scholars, ‘women are evaluated negatively when they adopt a stereotypically male leadership style and occupy traditionally male-dominated positions’. The employees in the case assume that Sally being a woman should be ‘nurturing and … care about their workers’ suggesting preconceived notions of how women should behave. This notion of stereotyping can result in misinterpretation of information because not all people are the same, and many in the same social category may demonstrate inconsistencies with the stereotype.

leaders. However, more people prefer male than female bosses. That has made it more difficult

Male employees would assume that a woman had got a job by sleeping with the boss, and also she is there to do womanly type jobs, such as, making coffee,     or answering phones. This stereotype of women in the work force is diminishing as time passes, but still exists today. Sexual harassment is a serious crime and women are more likely to stand up for themselves in today’s society.

In her essay, "But What Do You Mean?" Deborah Tannen discusses how men and women 's conversation styles differ in how they communicate with one another. The problem is that men and women have different perspectives. Tannen explains that the "conversation rituals" among women are designed to be polite and sensitive to others, while the "conversation rituals" among men are designed to maintain superiority (328). Tannen explores seven ways in which men and women miscommunicate : apologies, criticism, thank-yous, fighting, praise, complaints, and jokes. Being no fault of either party, conversation strategies between men and women are just naturally different, these miscommunications can make conversation awkward and sometimes can be misunderstood.

Karen Horney is one of the preeminent figures and founders of modern psychoanalysis. Although her ideas are not widely taught today or accepted as a basis of psychoanalysis in and of themselves, her ideas of social and environmental influences are “integrated into modern psychoanalysis therapies and personality development theory” (Quinn). She was a contemporary of Sigmund Freud and was one of his early followers. Yet Horney joined the class of neo-Freudians after her research and writing led her to develop and establish psychoanalytical theories that ran counter to Freud's ideas. She objected to the Freudian psychology of women, which instigated the search for her own theories for the causes of neurosis. This in turn led to her