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David Reef's Swimming With The Sea Of Death

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In his memoir about his mother, Journalist David Reef recounts his last experience with his dying mother, Susan and her battle with cancer. This book, Swimming with the Sea of Death, is both a passionate tale about the relationship of a loving son and his mother and a reflection of hope of what to do to continue living. In this personal memoir, Reefs offers not answers in relation to death. Instead, his story is about coping and a demonstration of someone’s personal battle with death
One prevalent theme of Reef’s Swimming with the Sea of Death is the shared hope that both physicians and patients feel over life. For example, in the book, the author’s mother Susan suffers from a deteriorative progressive cancer. Yet, despite her illness which …show more content…

Kaufman was interested in knowing whether technology has affected the way patients died and the way they ensured a “death with dignity”. She defines “death with dignity” as a death that has been controlled by the patient since the beginning This means, that by the time of their hospital stay, the person has remained in control and is autonomous of all their life options, including their own medical decisions. In many cases, a “death with dignity” is also characterized as a “good death” or a death that has been exempted from both suffering and pain. Consequently, Kauffman was trying to understand why patients, and in some cases physicians and families, push for harsher medical treatment to extend life, even when this endanger their possibility of a “death with dignity”. After reading Reed’s personal memoir, I realize that neither patients or physicians are trying to hurt each other, when they push for harsher treatments. But instead, it seems that what they are doing is feeding on each other hope. For example, patients remain hopeful that doctors can cure their diseases and doctors are hopeful that technology can deliver these changes to their patients. However, by feeding on their unrealistic hope, physicians enter without knowing into this vicious cycle for pushing for harsher and unrealistic means or treatments that endanger in the process the patient’s sense of dignity. That said, Susan ‘s physicians and his son, at one point, were victims of this cycle because they allowed, instead of alleviate the pain in Susan’s

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