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D/s Interview The couple that I interviewed has been together for almost 9 years and originally first met at the Renaissance Faire in Minnesota. The husband is the owner of an iron forge and is well known in the Renaissance Faire and BDSM community for his iron work. They both currently work together attending events and Faires across the United States in order to make a living. They are both raising her son with autism and working hard to balance their lives, their family business, and their son’s needs. He is 43 years old and she is 29. They identify as both polyamorous and kinky. He identifies as a kinkster and she identifies as a brat. The husband is the Master and owner of his wife. He has had multiple partners or play partners over …show more content…

The nervous did not come from asking the questions, but anticipation on whether they couple would give me a well-rounded enough response to the questions. I have been teaching for 3 years, and it is common for a class not to answer questions when asked them. It felt like it would be more awkward for a couple to just silently sit there after I asked a question or not answer a question fully. The only other interview that I have done were to hire people, not to build a rapport and gather information. In classes I learned that there was an art to interviewing and asking questions in order to get the desired response and make clients feel comfortable. This is something that I learned to be true during this experience, and it is a skill that I will need to practice. The number of times that I had to reword a question or said ‘umm’ took away from the interview and did not help me to feel confident in what I was doing. I was also very nervous about sticking to a time limit and getting all of my questions answered during that time …show more content…

It takes more than a half hour just to build to the point in conversation where progress is starting to be made and the couple is starting to connect on an intimate level. It is going to be difficult to interview couples that do not have this level of respect for each other. I was also reminded how complex people where and that everyone has their own reasons for getting involved with different cultures, or creating their own cultures. It surprised me when they informed me that he collared her in order to unlock her own strength. This is something that has stuck with me even days later because it has reminded me how important symbolism is. Over all this was a good learning experience and I look forward to the opportunities that I have in the future to interview couples and learn more about their

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