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Couples Perception Of Divorce

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The divorce process starts in the palm of the couple’s hand. They decide and determine whether or not to get a divorce. Divorces has good and bad outcomes and they affect different people. Couples have the direct impact, while children have to live with the outcome and the society has an indirect impact from it. There are issues with divorce at each level. Historically, divorces were hard and rare to achieve. However, the liberalization of divorce laws created a no-fault divorce law that made it easier for couples to have a divorce without evidence of conflict (Ball and Kvisto). As society is implementing to these new laws, couples’ perception of divorce has changed. It can be argued that because of the new divorce laws, Americans now see marriage …show more content…

However, one issue with that is that what we perceive is best for the children might not be according to the child. Often, decisions are made without the child’s input and so, they may suffer from the relationships they are forced to have or cut off. For example, in the chapter “Children of Divorce: A society in Search of Policy,” Ellen want to know at what age could she make the decision to not visit her father as often as the court orders her to. This is an example of when we think we are doing what is best for a child when they don’t want it themselves and the relationship is not supporting her at all (Wallerstein). Another example of the legal process taking away from a child’s development need for support, is in the chapter on ambiguous fathers, when they provide an illustration of a case where the husband was not the biological father of the child he has been raising, although he was under the impression that he was the biological father. Because he is not the biological father, he has no rights to fight for custody and the child would lose the only father figure he had in his life (Ellman). Although we thrive to do what we believe is best for the children, without their input and full analysis of the best way to divide custody, society is not making it easy for the children by allowing the legal system to determine what is best for the children. However, there are topics that we need to look into such as domestic violence and

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