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Comparing The Mother-Daughter Journeys In Amy Tan's The Joy Luck Club

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Amy Tan’s novel, The Joy Luck Club, portrays four different mother-daughter journeys where they all struggle to learn and appreciate the cultural differences between their generations. Among the four mother-daughter relationships and history in the novel, Lindo and Waverly Jong share a unique way of showing affection for one another. Lindo has a past that heavily affects the way she views her daughter’s happiness; however, Waverly struggles in understanding her mother’s message and misinterprets it as dislike and hatred. Tan lucidly depicts this mother-daughter pair’s journey together through misinterpretations, history, and appreciation for one another.
Lindo’s history provides a platform for her achievements and guidance for her children. …show more content…

Waverly says, “I was six when my mother taught me the art of invisible strength” (89). When her brother received a chess game for Christmas, she was intrigued by the pieces and the concept of the game. Using the strength she inherited from her mother, she became a prodigy winning many matches and competitions; however, she noticed her mother would fawn over her while she strategized for her next matches. Waverly says, “Ma, I can’t practice when you stand there like that” (100). Her mother mistakens Waverly’s intention and throws a fit. Waverly recognizes this miscommunication and becomes a weary about what she says to her mother. Another incident happened when her mother would take her out only to show her off to the community. Waverly becomes annoyed and embarrassed. Signs of broken bonds are evident and mending those bonds is difficult. Later in her adulthood, Waverly is merging into her second marriage with a man named Rich. She assumes that her mother would not approve and has a hard time confronting her about it. However, Lindo says, “ Jrdaule” -I already know this-”(200). Without the use of words, Lindo is already aware of Waverly’s message. Waverly’s mind responds with, “Oh, her strength! her weakness!- both pulling me apart. My mind was flying one way, my heart another. I sat down on the sofa next to her, the two of us stricken by the other” (201). Waverly comes to realize that the agitation she has felt against her mother for years, has been churning her to become someone who is spiteful, unfavorable, and stubborn. She begins to recognize and appreciate that her mother’s criticism was only an act of affection. Waverly becomes fully aware that all her mother wanted was to have her to find and understand the happiness in marriage, something she was deeply deprived of for many years while living in

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