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Comparing The Awakening And The Glass Menagerie

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How does one define themselves? When asked this question, most people would start by naming their personality traits and qualities, their desires and goals in life. Finding yourself is one of the great quests in life and one that we got to experience in both The Awakening by Kate Chopin and The Glass Menagerie by Tennessee Williams while we followed the stories of characters such as Edna Pontellier, Robert Lebrun, and Tom Wingfield. In their search to discover themselves, each of these characters began to display selfishness. Not only could readers detect this quality, but other characters within the books noticed how they could be selfish. Edna, Robert, and Tom could all be considered selfish while on their search for self by not thinking …show more content…

Edna said to Robert, “I am no longer one of Mr. Pontellier’s possessions to dispose of or not. I give myself where I choose. If he were to say, ‘Here, Robert, take her and be happy; she is yours,’ I should laugh at you both” (Chopin 139). Prior to her saying that to him, Robert was talking about how he wished that Mr. Pontellier would set his wife free. This implied that he also viewed Edna as a possession of Leonce’s and when Edna explained that she did not want to belong to anyone, he did not understand. When Robert and Edna hit a bump in the road in their relationship, Robert immediately fled and left Edna a note saying that he was leaving forever. This shows that Robert wasn’t considering the way that leaving would make Edna feel and that even though he loved her, he took the easy way out for himself. Instead of accepting the independence that Edna sought, he ran away. Robert was selfish throughout the story by loving and accepting Edna only when it was convenient for him, and then escaping when things got …show more content…

These decisions were ones where they thought only of themselves and what would make them happy, rather than thinking of the other important people in their lives and how their decisions would affect them. Edna Pontellier, Robert Lebrun, and Tom Wingfield were all selfish in that they made decisions that impacted the people around them in a negative way. Edna did not care to fulfill her duties as a wife in that time period and did not care about her husbands reputation, because she was happy. Tom attempted to escape his crazy family life by joining the merchant marines, leaving behind a sister and mother who probably could have really used his help. Robert didn’t want to accept the freedom that Edna wanted and backed out before the relationship got too hard. In The Awakening, Chopin uses Edna’s selfishness so that she can awaken and become more self aware, and Robert’s selfishness to show that even though they loved each other, maybe they weren’t really meant to be. Williams uses Tom’s selfishness to show just how different, and slightly crazy, the Wingfield family is to the point where Tom felt he had to escape. Throughout these books, we followed these characters on their search for self, and found that sometimes, in order to find oneself, one has to to make decisions for

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