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Comparing Randall Jarrell's 'Say Good-Bye To Big Daddy'

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No matter how big or great one is, he cannot escape death. In Randall Jarrell’s 1963 writing of “Say Good-bye to Big Daddy,” the poet describes Big Daddy Lipscomb as a football lineman superstar. His goliath size makes him impenetrable on the football field. Randall describes Big Daddy as the “Rock of Gibraltar”; however, it may also be Big Daddy’s sportsmanship and compassion for others that has made him a superstar. Although he was capable of pulling the largest of men to the ground, he was always sure to help them back up. Big Daddy is conscious of the fact that his actions are viewed by not only adults but also young impressionable children. He doesn’t want those young minds to think of him in a negative manner, and this is one reason he helps those he tackles back to their feet. Big Daddy is viewed by his fans as invincible. As they watch him play from the comfort of their home, they are mesmerized by his size and skill. Jarrell writes, “The big black man in the television set whom the viewers stared at - sometimes, almost were -.” Big Daddy Lipscomb is a man that is perceived to be flawless. His fans don’t realize that he is subject to the same grim realities of life that they are. They assume Big Daddy Lipscomb will …show more content…

Some of the very things that make him famous also cause him great pain. Big Daddy is ashamed of his mammoth stature. Having abnormal qualities like Big Daddy’s size can cause stress and have a negative impact on one’s self-worth. He admits to being scared most of his life and being depressed to the point of crying himself to sleep. Big Daddy Lipscomb experiences three failed marriages. His personal struggles may have contributed not only to his failed marriages but also to his demise. He turns to a life of heroin use as a way to escape the overwhelming realities of his daily life. The lethal effect of heroin is what causes Big Daddy Lipscomb to stumble and eventually

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