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Why Don’t We Listen Better
Thomas M. Gilbertson
COM 200
Richard Bair
May 3rd, 2010

Why Don’t We Listen Better I know how to speak, and I can hear when people talk to me, but why is it that we still consume ineffective listening skills between one another? When we think of effective listening at work or on the job, most of us think of what we actually say or what is said to us. What I am going to cover is the factors and barriers of effective communication, strategies for active, critical and empathic listening and understanding the impact of gender and culture on interpersonal communication. Of course, communication is versatile whether we are at work or in other areas of our lives. At work, however, so much can be at …show more content…

So when the major was explaining the situation of why he just came in now and not four months ago I didn’t really care why. There was insincerity during the conversation. I mainly looked at the computer avoided eye contact and nodded my head in acknowledgement. It was an issue I didn’t want to deal with one hour before closing. After about forty-five minutes boredom kicked in. I started viewing my e-mail, answering phone calls, became very impatient with the whole concept. The Major didn’t recognize the nonverbal signals I was giving that I was pretty irritated. There are also other barriers that get in the way of listening. One is language differences or accents, noise, anger and lack of attention span. Communicators who succeed in a diverse workplace must educate themselves about different cultures and co-cultures. Treating people from different cultural backgrounds with respect is essential. Finally, being willing to acknowledge and discuss cultural differences can help communicators understand and appreciate one another. The impact of culture and listening is very important in everyday life. Think about how many times you have had problems understanding someone from a different culture or even a different sub-culture. Now think about how many times someone from a different cultural background may have had problems understanding you. I know realize once that e-mail was

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