Childhood Trauma Family violence is always disheartening. Childhood sexual abuse is by far the worse. There are many forms of childhood sexual abuse. The sexual abuse can involve seduction by a beloved relative or it can be a violent act committed by a stranger. Childhood sexual trauma causes psychological, interpersonal, and behavioral. This paper will show a first account of the impact of childhood trauma.
Family History Jewel grew up in turmoil. She found out from her grandmother that her mother didn’t want her. Her granddaddy unofficially adopted her. Her paternal grandmother had 14 children, all of them were bipolar. Grandmother used to beat her husband with a switch if he didn’t clean up his room.
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What was the person’s reaction to the trauma? Jewel’s reaction to the trauma was self-injury by way of cutting herself on her arms and legs. Also, she had tried to commit suicide several times. She felt as if these things can’t be really happening.
What kind of support did she receive? From whom? Jewel received the support of her paternal grandparents. The paternal grandparents were separated. During the early years, her grandfather took care of her until her mother got situated in her life. The grandmother, who worked as a nurse, supported her with a place to stay for her and her child. This lady from the girl’s home named Annie helped Jewel get acquainted with learning how to take care of herself. Eventually, Jewel received the support of the State-Department of Human Services (DHS). They ended up emancipating her at age 16 and put her up in her own apartment with benefits for her and her baby.
How did that impact the interviewee? How did she cope with that? Jewel felt that she had had a very hard life with constantly struggling to keep herself safe. She didn’t trust people very well. She coped the best way she knew how, by continuing to self-injure herself by cutting her arms and legs, self-medicated with alcohol, and smoked cigarettes non-stop. This led to her trying to find love in all the wrong places; she started to follow the pattern of being in abusive relationships.
To what extent did
In this paragraph Darl describes how his mother felt towards his siblings before she died. He focuses on his mother and Jewel’s relationship, where Jewel is constantly tired and can not complete his daily chores. Addie gives Jewel’s jobs to Dewey Dell and Vardaman, and gives Jewel less to do. She prepares him special foods and hides it for him. At this time in the book, readers do not know the reason for Addie’s favoritism of Jewel but they find out when Darl says “. . . fix him special things and hide them. And that may be when I first found it out…” (Faulkner 130). Darl mentions that Addie believed that deceit was one of the worst things. This begs the question of her teachings and her personal morals. If she believed that deceiving someone
My first impression of Jewel was that i could relate to him more than any other character. He has a hard time expressing his emotions, which I do too. Jewel also seems to love his mother a lot, probably because he feels isolated in his family and feel as if he can only get close to his mother. Essentially he is an only child, like me and I sort off know how he feels. Jewel feels the same about horses as i feel about working out. Whenever i feel overwhelmed with emotions, working out in the gym always helps, and Jewel does the same with his horse. I liked Jewel and his characteristics right from the start.
However, Jewel has a much different view of their journey. Jewel sees it as a way to make up to his mother for not being there when she passed (Faulkner 48). Therefore, he does everything in his power to get her there . . . including running into a burning barn and nearly drowning to save her coffin (Faulkner 154 and 221). These acts, although seemingly heroic, arise as truly selfish and shallow. These shallow acts can exist through Jewels “pale eyes” which look “like wood” (Faulkner 4). This simile compares Jewel to a simple substance which mirrors how his actions towards his mother are self-absorbed. Wood is two dimensional and shallow. When Jewels refuses to let the past go and continuously holds on to the idea of upsetting his mother, he in turn works for his own benefit. Jewel seeks his mother's approval out of self absorption and not out of love; he acts shallow and hollow like wood. In turn, Jewel ignores his siblings and continues to push towards
While, this may seem like the kind hearted thing to do, Jewel is settled on doing this because he wishes to prove that he loves his mother more than anyone else in the family. As a direct recipient of Anse’s cruelty, Jewel finds himself being more of father figure to the family than anyone else. This responsibility puts Jewel under massive amounts of stress and leads to him pushing the family on the mission despite the losses they had already taken and the disrespectful state that Addie’s body was in. For example. When another Bundren child, Darl, comes to the realization that there is nothing to gain from their situation, he takes matters into his own hands. After placing Addie’s coffin in a barn, he sets the building ablaze. In a quick response, Jewel jumps into action; putting the fire out, saving the animals, and rescuing Addie’s coffin. While this action may seem heroic, it is actually one of the most cruel performances throughout the novel. By saving Addie’s coffin Jewel is not only positively influencing his personal goal of demonstrating his love for his mother, he is also enabling this absolute failure of a trip to
Jewel Bundren, the middle child in the Bundren household, lives a very complicated life due to his distinct differences with his siblings. Jewel is a young adult whose aspirations and wishes do not relate to the others in his family. Although Jewel is a part of the Bundren family, his only tie to the family is his mother, Addie. Jewel looks nothing like the Bundrens. He clearly resembles his father, Minister Whitfield. This is apparent when Darl describes Jewel as having “pale eyes and a wooden face” (Faulkner 4). Jewel is seemingly taller and stronger than Darl, as he is quite a hard-worker. This is especially true when he is working with horses, his main love.
Although Jewel has always felt very different from his family members he has always had a strong love for his mother, although it is not perceived that way. Barnes points out, “In the episode where he exchanges his horse for the team of mules to replace the team destroyed in the river, Jewel reveals the extent of his active devotion to his mother, which itself meets the needs of the entire family.” (Barnes, “Faulkner’s Jewel: Logos and the Word Made Flesh”). When Addie’s body was in danger Jewel was the child to act although he wanted nothing to do with the rest of the family. Jewel is dealing with his grief for his mother by completely taking it on which is why Jewel is experiencing the most pain. Without Addie, Jewel now feels that he has
Jewel is the son of Addie and Minister Whitfield. He is not like the other children and his mother favors him. Darl and Jewel have a very difficult relationship, because Darl likes to remind him that he really is not apart of the family. Jewel has a horse that his most prized possession which Darl tries to burn in the barn fire. Jewel saves his mother from the fire. He is more of a loner than the rest of the family, but his love for his mother exceeds what the other children hold for her. After she is gone, he really does not belong to this family even less than when she was alive and he knows
Have you heard a story that have selfish in the theme of the story that affected everything about the necklace and the bet how both of this character do things that they have to go through a lot of things and both of them wasted their 10 years of their life.
& Li, 2001). With the brain developing at its fastest rate in childhood, it is especially
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