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Catfish: The Tv Show Host Yaniv Schulman

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The truth may be a vital part of a relationship, but many people believe that starting relationships online is an outlet to pretending to be whoever you want in life. There is two sides to every problem and with catfishing, that is the case. Catfishing has become more frequent and very common on many online communities. With many catfishes out there how will people know what is the truth and what is a lie? It all comes down to the awareness you have with your online presence. Catfishing has been going on for quite some time but there was one case that brought it out into the spotlight, and that case is the one of the now Catfish: The Tv Show host Yaniv Schulman.
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For example, in Mattila's case he used the internet to uncover his sexuality, and to help him overcome his antisocial ways “My nonsexual feelings for Pamela were just one of the things that made me an outcast. Another was that I preferred computers to people.”(Matilla) In this case Matilla was forced to find company with his computer, but even that did not bring him the friendship or attention he craved for. Since, online a lot of them men would want to talk to a young boy, he made a decision he would never be able to come back from. “I realized no one wanted to message with a boy in his early adolescence, but many were clamoring to chat with an attractive woman. And that’s where Pamela came in.To interest fellow gamers, I needed to become a woman.” (Mattila) In that moment Matilla became Charlotta and after that messages came pouring in. Once he got the company he wanted, it was too addicting to stop. If it was not for the eye opening relationship he had with a man named Jussi he would not have been able to stop, but once he did it was a bit too late. You see, he had set up to meet Jussi, but could not bring himself to actually show up. Matilla was never able to face Jussi and thank him for what he did. There was something on his mind he wished he would have said to him “I wish there had been a way for me to tell him what his online companionship meant to me: …. That he had helped me believe I was funny, interesting and worth talking to. That he had, if only by his presence, made it possible for me to begin to process my sexuality.”(Mattila) Jussi helped Matilla come out of his shell he helped him become the man he is today, and it was all because Jussi paid him the attention Matilla needed. Matilla also uncovered who he was sexually, and it was eye opening for him to experience something so new. Uncovering one’s sexuality is a big motive when it comes to catfishing. The people

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