Throughout our whole lives, we spend the majority of our time communicating in some way or form. Many people in today’s society are uninformed of all the key concepts and importance of communication, such as interpersonal communication. One major concept in the field of communication is Interpersonal Communication. Many concepts of Communication can be demonstrated in everyday life or even in our favorite movies. This analysis is from the movie, “Blind Side”. There are many concepts of Interpersonal Communication included in this film. Self Concept, Self Esteem, Stereotype, Perception, and Stages of Relationship are just a few concepts that are utilized throughout this movie. Self Concept is based on the perceptions that we make of ourselves. The self-concept is important to the study of communication because it drives our behavior, influencing our communication with others and ultimately defining our attitudes about ourselves as products of our environment or creators of our environment. In the beginning of the film, Michael’s Self Concept about himself is very poor. He realizes that he grew up in an unhealthy environment and that affects the way he communicates. When Michael begins school in the film, he realizes and perceives himself as …show more content…
The primary influence our perceptions is our Self Concept. While watching this film, I noticed some perceptual errors that the characters made. One of the common perceptual errors is the tendency to assume that others are like us. A lot of the people that interact with Michael make this error. The students at school tend to not interact with Michael because he is a different race and also has a different personality than they do. The teachers also are guilty of this same perceptual error because they’re not used to having students that don’t know the fundamentals of learning at Michael’s
One of the main, if not the most important, influence on how society communicates is through an individual’s self-concept. Self-concept is an individual’s interpretation of who they are and is developed by what they know about themselves, and through feedback from others (DeVito 54). Self-concept affects our ability to communicate through social comparisons, cultural teachings, others’ image, and self-evaluations.
Communication is key to any lasting relationship. This includes elements or methodical concepts that will take place in a romantic interest, past loves, or even in the workplace. “Communication has a link that affects your direct quality of life,” (Stewart, 2012). Communication comprised of interchanging and or the imparting opinions, information, or thoughts amongst individual using verbal, non-verbal (writing), and or visual signs. Paralanguage and nonverbal communication plays a significant part in applying communication theory to interpersonal communication. There are challenges and issues that arises with interpersonal communication. Those challenges tend to be: the need to always be right; fear; refusal to listen and comprehend the conversation; running away; and social conditioning and personal beliefs. In addition to the challenges there are internal
Effective interpersonal communication skills are essential for improving interactions not only with loved ones but also with colleagues in the workplace.
When I entered the parking lot I saw that the lot was clean with no trash or any other type of debris in sight. I approached the entrance of the store and noticed a promotional ad that advertised their current sale of ‘buy one, get one half off of selected items.’ I entered the store and began to look at the furniture, there was a salesperson that passed by me, but she did not acknowledge me. I looked around for a little longer there was another salesperson that passed me and also did not acknowledge me. As I walked through the store I observed the attractive design of the furniture as well as the area rugs and accent pieces.
Competency area number three i feel is where i have developed a lot of my strengths. Through out the semester i have built rapport and engage clients in a collaborative and respectful helping relationships. I have done this by just helping the students everyday that I am here with their home work. I use uses effective interpersonal communication and SSW skills ( ex. empathy, active and reflective listening skills etc.) to develop rapport/engage and understand the clientele concerns, needs and perceptions of the difficulties
Every day, communication continues to evolve and find new mediums for its transportation. With the technological advances in our global community, we have been able to revolutionize not only our lives, but our work places as well. For instance, the electronic mailing system, also known as e-mail, provides an amazing manner of transporting communication digitally in our daily personal and business-related lives.
Communication is imperative for human survival, either for physical needs or mental health requirements. Some people require more stimuli than others; some people are more communicative than others. I noticed, I began my day on a negative note; my attitude was not the best that could have been. This sole reason affected my work ethics, the tone of voice I communicated with, and how much I would be communicating that day. Weather it was a simple eye rolls, shake of the head, or a quick text, I communicated.
Communication can affect many aspects of a conversation. As a team member, you have to be able to communicate effectively with others in order to work on a team. Yelling and being belligerent, can cause major conflicts if you use them within a group professional setting.
During week one I flipped through material from week two and three, specifically chapter 6: Interpersonal Communication and Conversations. I discovered the section on feedfoward messages and phatic communication caught my attention. It stated that “small talk” opens the way for “big talk.” I also realized that chapters 3 and 5 Listening in Human Communication and Nonverbal messages coincided with small talk. I was never really into small talk or trying to hold a conversation, because I didn’t know how and was afraid because I didn’t know what to say. I continued reading chapter 6 and ran across a section called “How Do You Small Talk” and tested myself. Of course my scores were bad so I made this my challenge.
A simple interaction between two people seems very basic, yet there are many things going on during the interaction within each of the participants. When I greet my daughter after she comes home from school with a simple ”how was school?” and “do you have any homework?” it seems very straightforward. On one level I am concerned whether or not she has had a good day, and what schoolwork does she still need to do, she could simply react with good, and yes or no. There is also something deeper, because she is family I want to help if her day was not good or celebrate if it was good, and also work with her to get through any homework. She may or may not realize these things, but her responses would bring a reaction that she would play
A first concept relevant to this interpersonal relationship is my concept where I experienced two of the six primary emotions. The two types of emotions were fear and joy. For example, when I saw the pregnancy test was positive, I was experiencing to types of emotions at the same time and I didn’t know that was even possible, until I learned about blended emotions in class. Where you experience more than one emotions. I for one was going through this. For example, I had both emotions of fear and joy at the same time. With me having joy knowing that the wait to be a mother was over and I would finally be a mom after all these years. Yet, also having fear not knowing if I would be able to go full term with this pregnancy because there is a lot
I am going to apply the interpersonal communication concepts into my life in many ways. First, the knowledge of the interpersonal communication principles and guidelines will help me to communicate more effectively. Since, we cannot not communicate, I will be careful when I get upset and try to ignore people. I realize now that my silence can be interpreted by others in negative ways. I am keeping in mind that communication is irreversible, so I will be monitoring it carefully to make sure I will not say anything that I may regret later. It is important to engage in dual perspective in order to understand other people’ points of view even though they are completely different from mine, but at the same time respect my own thoughts. The
Self-concept is the gathering of beliefs about one’s own uniqueness and the type of behaviour expressed. It is formed by the perceptions people have with one another and how does the environment impact the people around. It includes who we are, our motives, emotional states, self-evaluation, social identity, personal skills and abilities. The material self refers to the physical needs and the social self refers to the functions an individual play and needs for being accepted and
Communication is defined by the Merriam-Webster dictionary as, “the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to express or exchange information or to express your ideas, thoughts, feelings, etc., to someone else.” Communication is something everyone in the world does on a daily basis. Just like there are many different kinds of people; there are many different kinds of forms of communications as well. People are complex structures that require many parts working together; some of those parts can be seen and others cannot. The concept of self-awareness can be explained as a four-quadrant model called the Johari window. It includes thing that you know, and do not know, about yourself; as well as things that other know, and do not know, about you. In other words, the Johari Window enables people to view themselves as others see them, which give a unique perspective way of looking at relationships and the communication process. In this essay we will go over other some “self analysis” questions that include awareness and perception. As far as my own personal communication style goes, the areas that stand out to me the most are my listening skills and the way I make eye contact.
While many profess not to care what others think, we are, in the end, creatures who want and need to fit into a social universe. The ability to intuit how people see us and how we communicate with others is what enables us to authentically form relationships. Interpersonal communication is a “distinctive transactional form of human communication involving mutual influence, usually for the purpose of managing relationships” (Beebe, Beebe, Redmond, Geerinck, & Wiseman-Salem, 2015). By exploring the strengths and weaknesses of my communication skills, it will enable me to learn more about myself which in turn can positively influence my relationships in both personal and professional settings.