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Ben Woodward's Argument Against Homosexuality

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As a teenager, Ben Woodward popular among his friends, loved by his family and a respected prefect at school, slid into depression, worried by his lack of interest in girls, and concerned that he seemed 'different' to other boys his age. His school friends worried about their previously happy-go-lucky mate, and began to notice he didn't come to parties with them anymore or discuss his 'conquests'.
But by the time of this article, Ben now 22, and openly and comfortably homosexual, accepted employment as the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender project officer at Youthlink. "For me, coming out and accepting it all turned out to be the best thing I could do," he said, "My life has been so much better. I am comfortable with who I am and what I am. I have the support of my family and friends, a happy relationship, jobs I love, and an opportunity to help others …show more content…

"Ridiculous. Who in their right mind would choose to be in a minority group that is judged and discriminated against. You have no control over your sexuality but you have control over embracing it for what it is, or doing the opposite. I only accepted my sexuality when I went to university in Brisbane. "
At age 14, Ben realised he differed from his mates and it frightened him, " I thought 'if I stop thinking these thoughts I might turn out not gay' and 'if I try harder to be interested in girls, I might become interested.' I think my friends knew I was gay before I did, but I was lucky. I was never bullied."
In Brisbane, he attended a social group for gay youth and realised he was gay and that was not going to change, so home on holidays in 1997, he told his family. "That was a scary thing to do but I am proud of how my family reacted. I guess most parents worry about the things you'll miss out on like marriage and children, but then they start to comprehend what you will have - the love of family and friends - and

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