Another way that same-sex couples can become parents is through assisted reproductive technology. These technologies involve in vitro fertilization, intrauterine insemination, intracervical insemination, and the “do-it yourself” method. That being said, homosexuals should have the same access to these technologies that heterosexual couples do. Same-sex couples and couples with fertility issues struggle to have families. But the struggle does not end with reproductive technology. A lot of times a surrogate mother or a donor is involved. That makes it a three parent situation. Therefore, if a surrogate mother decides she wants to keep the baby then that just introduces a whole lot more drama in the parent’s life. Assisted Reproductive Technology …show more content…
Everyone has a different variation on what parenting should be. There are good and bad elements in every household. However, George Dent, law professor, argues that same-sex families have a lot of downfalls. Those downfalls include little to no ties with biological parents, lack of gender specific nurturing from a mother or father, confusion about their own sexuality, and increased instability. Dent also feels as if artificial reproduction technologies should not be used by same-sex couples to gain a family and they should have limited rights to adoption (Dent). Having little to no ties with their biological parents may cause a child to have a sense of lost identity. They may not feel as though they can fully understand who they are without knowing where they came from. This identity crisis may cause any child to act out and cause issues. Then when a child has a lack of gender specific nurturing it can cause them to be confused about gender roles. Along with gender role confusion, is the argument that children in a LGBT home may be deprived of what it is like to have a mom or have a dad, but at least they have someone who loves them. Other arguments say that children leaving with a homosexual parent(s) may experience confusion about their own sexuality. Basically, because they are surrounded by homosexuality every day, they may be more prone to also become a homosexual. Another concern about children being raised in a same-sex household is that it increases their chance at instability. Because same-sex marriage is still fairly new, a lot of stress can occur for anyone apart of a LGBT family. That stress can cause a lot of fighting and issues in the family, which is correlated to instability in the household (Dent). With all of that being said, many people argue that same-sex relationships are okay, but they
Are kids at a disadvantage growing up in a household with same sex parents? Do they grow up developmentally delayed, psychosocially impaired, or morally confused? Is the traditional one mother, one father custom the best way to raise our children and does the role of each parent, mother and father, truly have an impact on the way the child holistically is risen to become. These are all questions that most homosexual couples, orphanage/adoption centers, surrogate mothers, egg donors, social workers, and the general lay people think of. It is quite normal for the general public to have concerns about homosexual couples adapting or having children for it was not till recently till that United States and other countries started excepting homosexual couples as the norm. A plethora of studies and research projects have been and are continuing to be conducted by a
Everyone has the right to be a parent. If two teens in high school can have a baby at a young age, then nothing should be able to stop two adults of the same sex to have a family. Gay, lesbian, or hetrosexual people are human. They want the same things straight people want: a job, a family, and the best well being for themselves and the ones
The simple definition of adoption from a book by the British Association for Adoption & Fostering, “Adoption means belonging to and growing up with a new family when you cannot live with the family you were born into.”.( Shah 6) Adoption is being brought into another family when an individual’s birth parents does not want or cannot raise a child due to any reason. It was not their choice to be given up for adoption. Those kids are looking for good and new families to raise them and “An estimated two million LGBT people are interested in adopting.”. (Adoption Statistics 1) The estimate of two million people who are part of the community who want to adopt is a very large number. Many kids are looking for homes and those people who are interested in adoption should provide homes for those children without question. According to an organization called Lifelong Adoptions who are registered with the Registry of California Adoption Facilitators that linked to an equality maps, “Same-sex couples in all states can petition for joint adoption statewide.” (LGBT 1) which means it is legal to petition yet what goes on in the adoption hearing tends to prevent those couples from becoming parents. Hearings tend to bend or exaggerate the opposite side where the birth parents, the more
“There is no scientific basis for concluding that lesbian mothers or gay fathers are unfit parents on the basis of their sexual orientation” (Armesto, 2002; Patterson, 2000; Tasker & Golombok, 1997). Ever since gay and lesbians have been parents people have questioned how the parents’ sexual orientation impacts child and adolescent development. Opponents of same-sex parents argue that sexual orientation has a negative impact on child development, while proponents argue that the relationship between the child and parents is what matters. National, state, and local governments are faced with the controversy surrounding same-sex parenting. People have very strong opinions on both sides of the argument. Children and adolescents who are under lesbian or gay parents have normal child development compared with children under heterosexual parents. These children develop normally socially, mentally, and academically.
Many arguments exist criticizing why same-sex couples should not be parents. The main reason for debate exists within the religious community. Those who are strict followers of the bible believe that homosexuality is a sin. Therefore, they think this community should not be able to raise a child. Another argument presented in this article is, children in will grow up to be lesbian or gay, if they are brought up in a homosexual household. The author also explains that kids raised by two of the same-sex parent will be more likely to be bullied. It is true that children raised by a gay couple are more likely to be harassed in school (Clarke
Assisted reproductive technology(ART) is a cycle of fertility treatments that includes in vitro fertilization and intrafallopian transfer (Sunderam et al., 2015).
There are different and various methods for a homosexual couple to become parents as that is through a sperm donor, surrogate, foster care and adoption. Some of the methods may become expensive and take time, however the same goes for heterosexual couples longing to become parents. There are different forms of adopting, such as second parent adoption, which allows a homosexual parent to adopt their biological or adoptive child without terminating the first parent’s legal status, and joint adoption, a procedure for two people to petition to adopt a child. Some family courts have decided adoption on a case-by- case basis. Twenty-two states in the United States have allowed gays and lesbians to adopt; however, New Jersey, New York, Colorado, Connecticut, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Maine, Massachusetts,Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Vermont and California have allowed second-parent adoption and every state except Mississippi allow joint adoption. Recently, after gay
A tradition family consists of a mom, a dad and a few kids. This is societies version of a “normal family”, which is accepted by all states in the US, legally and socially. However, people who identify themselves in the Lesbian, Gay Bisexual, and Trans-gender community want to be parents as well. This is not what the majority of Americans see as normal, and there are stigmas and myths that take a hold of these parents and they are discriminated against because of the stigmas and the stereotypes that people can hold against them. In research, LGBT parents are more than capable of parenting, and they do just as well as heterosexual parents. More specifically, looking at studies with adolescents show that the more open the parent(s) is with them, the tighter a relationship, as with any other heterosexual parenting style. There are also legal aspects of child custody and how sexual and familial identities are played in a court of law.
One of the most important thing for children is to have a loving and supporting home. Having a loving and supportive home can come from same-sex couple or heterosexual couples. According to the article Overview of gay and lesbian parenting, adoption and foster care by American Civil Liberties “Good parenting is not influenced by sexual orientation. Rather, it is influenced most profoundly by a parent's ability to create a loving and nurturing home -- an ability that does not depend on whether a parent is gay or straight.” This just shows how important it is for kids to
We have seen wars on equal rights for different races, slavery ending in the United States, rights for women to vote, and so many others. The newest issue we have in our society is creating equal rights for LGBT couples. While many states have been allowing LGBT couples the right to marry, they still struggle for the right to adopt children. The right to adopt a child is very important to many LGBT couples, as they cannot physically create a child themselves. LGBT couples should legally be allowed to adopt as many of these couples simply want what most traditional hetorosexual couples want, which is a family. Since LGBT couples cannot physically create their children like traditional couples, they only have two options of getting a glimpse into parenthood, and both involve
Because, I only though about the fact that the kids will be bully or made fun at school. But, never stop to think if they could actually provide a safe home with values and love. However, I’ve been mistaken same-sex couples are equally as capable of raising children, as a heterosexual couple. Because, similar to foster care and adoption, children thrives in families which are stable and that provide permanent security. You can also argue that they also are more prepare, because they choose to have kids rather then having by accident. They are fully commit and often choose the neediest one when adopting. Their kids will grow up to be tolerant and open-minded, something that is needed in this society. There is no boundaries or right-or- wrong anymore, anyone should fulfilled their need or desire to be a parent if they really want to, because most likely these will be the ones which will provide much more care and love to their children in today’s dysfunctional society. Even though I have previously form and strong opinion on this matter. This stamens was wrong, just because a couple is from a man and a women does not mean that automatically are excellent
A child who is raised in a homosexual household is more likely to grow an affinity for the same sex. They will also experience bullying more often whether it be in school or just walking down the street because not everyone agrees with the homosexual relationships, which can have a negative effect in the child's life. This is the first step to destroying traditional household.
Homosexuals must be allowed to adopt children just like any other couple who want to do the same thing. A child needs love, respect and a home in which they can assure themselves that there will be someone there to care for them. As in the example, there is no need for a dad and a mom who will always be arguing about the shared custody. Just because their parents are homosexuals does not mean that the child will grow up to be the same. Everyone is different and will grow up to be what they want to be. Children don’t always come out exactly like their parents. These children aren’t any different. They will grow up to think for themselves and decide their own sexuality.
In the article “Gay Parenting is Harmful” by George Dent has many excellent points on why gay parenting is harmful. One claim that George makes is that it could confuse the child and his sexual orientation because when the kid sees same sex parents according to Diana Baumrind a researcher stated that the kids are more to have sexualization at a younger age. Another point that George makes is that homosexual parents are not as strong as heterosexual parents are because George believes that a man in woman have a stronger relationship because it has the father figure to show the child how much he cares about his wife, so the child can see how much a man and women can love and care for each other. George goes on saying that “homosexuals are less inclined than heterosexuals to marry, and gays who do marry have a high divorce rate." George follows this up with the clam that gay parents more males then females marry at a later age then heterosexual couples because they are not into a committed relationship that “normal couples” are and
Nowadays, the question of gay marriage is one of the most heated and controversial. Over the years, same-sex couples are fighting for the legal recognition for their marriages and their right as parents. Parenthood is one of the most valuable experiences in a human life. After finding a partner, it is natural for people to want to raise children. Homosexual parent are the same in ability and commitment to raised healthy children. It would be a big step for improvement in our society to provide necessary support and rights for same-sex couples and their children.