Arrogance, also known as narcissism, is like a brand new car because an arrogant person is flamboyant and distinctive. Arrogance is a very widely known character trait in which many people can identify. Studies show that “1 in every 6 people is a narcissist” (Peterson, 2014, bullet 5). Many humans have encountered, know, or are a narcissistic human, but what does arrogance really mean? According to merriam-webster.com (2014), the definition of arrogance is, “an insulting way of thinking or behaving that comes from believing you are better, smarter,or more important than other people” (Def. 1). In the novels The Catcher in the Rye and Siddhartha, the main characters both possess the trait of arrogance, but both express the trait in …show more content…
One would think a narcissist would be a smooth talker, but as Kaufman (2011) found from talking to Nicholas Holtzman and Michael Strube, narcissists “engaged in more disagreeable verbal behaviors, arguing and cursing more- and using more sexual language” (para. 11). Narcissist have less of a filter on words because cursing and arguments draw attention. Also, the narcissist may feel powerful by using this language to hurt others. Control is a key factor in every narcissist’s life, for without control over the other person, the narcissist would be unable to exploit the relationship to receive desires. In a nutshell, narcissists are manipulative, attractive, and verbally filterless in order to increase attention from others. Furthermore, the root cause for arrogance builds upon the dictionary definition of arrogance. In recurring instances, arrogance stems from how a person was raised during early childhood. Some psychologists believe arrogance is caused by “biological vulnerabilities, social interactions and early caregivers, and psychological factors that involve temperament and the ability to manage stress” (Goldberg, 2012, para. 3). All of these factors may lead to a need for pampering. The people who experience one or even all of these factors may feel inadequate and unimportant, so in order to get attention arrogance slowly forms. Gaining control of others allows for the narcissist to receive admiration
Although I can see how being more self confident can help, I don’t understand how people would choose to be more self confident at the cost of becoming arrogant. Odysseus himself is a good example of this, of how pride can get to your head. After escaping from Polyphemus he bragged and yelled out to him telling of how he had tricked him enraging the beast, not caring for the safety of his crew. Not only risking their lives when they should have been safe, but enraging some of his crew as well. In his arrogance he had lost 6 of his crew to Polyphemus, 6 of his crew he could have saved.
"Arrogance is the camouflage of insecurity". For an intelligent, well-known, young man like Chris McCandless, arrogance acted as a poison for him in the movie Into the Wild. How could he not be arrogant, the man had everything, he went to Harvard, had caring parents, a loving sister, and a car. He decided to throw that all away for some journey to Alaska. Why Alaska? He had no business in Alaska, he was ignorant and self centered. He passed up so many opportunities, and so many signs to let him no this wasn't a good idea. From the Hippie Parents, to the Old Man who wanted to adopt him, Chris ignored all signs. He wanted what he wanted and didn't let anyone tell him otherwise. If someone offers help it is only because you have touched their
Although many will argue that narcissism is just a behavior that will not pose any danger to anyone, Gilb has a theme of narcissism, showing us that young and adult people these days are being infected with this “narcissism” because of being materialistic, having unmanaged stress, and easy access on social
The definition of arrogance is overbearing pride. I see arrogance almost everywhere I go: the store, church, school, and on the street. Arrogance could be disguised as self reliance, but you need to be able to know when you need help, and be able to accept it. Those who do not accept help and are too arrogant, which is a sin. Many of the Greek myths, some of my family members, and myself sometimes have arrogance.
J.D. Salinger embodies immaturity in Holden's character in order to demonstrate his desire to hold onto his depleting adolescent years. Salinger demonstrates Holden's juvenile outlook as he incorporates other characters of similar age throughout the novel. These characters, when compared to Holden, help Salinger portray a clear difference between their maturities. This was apparent after Salinger had Holden shy away from engaging in sexual intercourse with a prostitute, "I don't feel very much like myself tonight...I'll pay you and all, but do you mind very much if we don't do it." His immaturity is clearly exposed as he fails at a task that other kids in his Pency Class, like Stradlater, had already completed.
In the book, “The Catcher in the Rye,” is is clearly shown that certain tragic events can affects the growth of one’s maturity. Essentially leading to mental breakdowns and in holden 's case, put him in a mental intuition. Holden’s younger brothers premature passing inflicts a cynical view on the world around him and shows that he is terrified about growing up. He becomes disappointed with the interactions that he has with other people and his lack of social interest shows he does not know how to empathize with for others. His cynical views make him inferior even though he wants to be superior. This would essentially be summed up into what is known as an existential crisis. Holden questions his point of living which leaves him lost in
Although someone diagnosed with NPD may seem to have this overconfidence, those individuals have low self-esteems and negative criticism are not their cup of tea. What society tends to call those with NPD are cocky, arrogant, conceited, or “big-headed.” NPD individuals look down on others and try to belittle others. Individuals with NPD tend to take over in the presence of conversations, they have a sense of entitlement, and if those with NPD does not get their way or special treatment, they will become angry. Further researched proved that narcissism have a
Narcissism: is a term that originated with Narcissus in Greek mythology who fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. Currently it is used to describe the pursuit of gratification from vanity, or egotistic admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, that derive from arrogant pride.
Narcissism personality disorder according to DSM-V is (and now also in Section II of DSM-5) describe “a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy . . .,” indicated by five or more of the following: (a) a grandiose sense of self-importance; (b) preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love; (c) beliefs of being special and unique; (d) requirements of excessive admiration; (e) a sense of entitlement; (f) interpersonal exploitativeness; (g) lack of empathy; (h) envy of others; and (i) arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes. Narcissism has been around or studied for thirty years. Rosenfeld thought that that his client had invented an alter ego at first. In the article what part do narcissism play in the narcissistic disorder? It talk about narcissistic disorder arise when an ego-destructive super ego has arisen in the course of development. The article talks about that trauma as a child or infant may also play a big part of narcissism. A large part of narcissistic disorder comes from a wide range of symptoms like self-enhancing and self-serving incentives. (Elsa Ronningstam) described a 21 none year old client that she treated, his parents brought him in to see her and they described him as selfish, inconsiderate, demanding, and demeaning, with threatening and verbally aggressive behavior, and involved in poly substance abuse (pp 434-438). Bob his self-admitted that some
Is a person simply born this way? Do they grow and evolve into a narcissist or sociopath. The causes of narcissistic personality disorder aren't well understood. Inherited genetic defects are thought to be responsible for up to 50% of cases. Environmental factors may also contribute to the disorder, such as childhood abuse and/or neglect, excessive pampering or unrealistic expectations from parents. (Levy, R. 2015). Parents fail to provide sufficient nurturing and support or an emotional level by not recognizing and respecting their children's individuality, but they also try to mold them according to their image of how they should be. The lack of nurturing and recognition aggravates the distortions, but it is the distortion that produces the narcissistic
Someone with narcissistic personality disorder would show an exaggerated sense of self-importance, a preoccupation with being admired, and a lack of empathy for the feelings of others (Hooley, p.349). Many studies support the fact that narcissism has two sub types: grandiose and vulnerable narcissism (cain et al.,2008; Ronningstam, 2005, 2012). The grandiose sub-type is manifested by traits related to grandiosity, aggression, and dominance. They usually overestimate their abilities and accomplishments and underestimate the abilities and accomplishments of others. They feel entitled, behave in stereotypical ways, and often think they can only be understood by those of
Believing that you are superior and can only be understood by or associate with equally special people
Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder display an exaggerated sense of self-importance, a preoccupation with being admired, and a lack of empathy for the feelings of others (Pincus & Lukowitsky,2010; Ronningstam,2005,2009). Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality
There are many business issues we all face in the work place today. One of those that I can personally relate to my professional work life is narcissism. Stephen Robbins defines narcissism as being “the tendency to be arrogant, have a grandiose sense of self-importance, require excessive admiration, and have a sense of entitlement.” (Robbins, 2009, p. 113) We have one employee who has the attitude of narcissism. He is very arrogant and thinks that he knows everything about anything. This would be fine if he actually did. However, we are an electrical company. Meaning we work very closely with electricity, which is highly dangerous if you do not know 100% what you are doing. It makes it very difficult to work with someone like this. They make their co-workers feel belittled and they are less effective at the job. Narcissisms are very arrogant in the fact that they do not care about their co-workers feelings. In the article “Narcissism and Emotional Contagion”, Writer Anna Czarna states that after much research, “narcissists are less likely to “catch
Have you ever been around someone who seems arrogant? It may not be just arrogance, that individual may have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder or NPD. Narcissus, a Greek mythological character, fell in love with his reflection in the water and could never pull himself away, so he ended up dying right beside the water after a while (Marcovitz 1). Narcissism became known as being self-centered and was developed after this Greek myth (Marcovitz 1). This disorder affects less than 1% of the American population and it occurs more in men than women (Thomas 1). Later on in life most people with NPD will experience severe symptoms around the ages of forty or fifty years old (Psych 1). Many people who have this disorder either refuse to get help