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Analyzing Interactions at a Local Restaurant Going out to eat at a restaurant can sometimes be somewhat of an “eye-opening’ experience. The food quality or the time it takes to get your food can definitely add to this, but often at times many people do not observe and analyze the interaction that takes place between the staff at the restaurant and those who dine there. The interactions that take place at a restaurant can vary from person to person, but by looking at characteristics such as age, gender, culture, ethnicity, or physical ability, a connection may be found regarding how people are treated by the staff at a restaurant. For this analysis, I decided to go out to a restaurant with my wife with a goal in mind to study the interactions …show more content…

We both immediately started laughing, and he just looked at both of us with a puzzled grin. He then told us to enjoy our meal and we both thanked him. Since we both lost the bet, we decided to raise the stakes and see which one of us he would give the bill to. Whoever the bill was handed to would have to pay for the bill, and treat the other person out to a movie, as well. When the waiter returned, after we had finished our meals, we were shocked again when we noticed that he set the bill at the end of the table directly in between us. At the point, we starting laughing hysterically, and then thanked him for all that he did for us. He looked at us both again with the same puzzled grin, and told us to have a great rest of the day. As we got up to go pay our bill, we decided to leave him a 20 dollar tip not only for his great customer service, but for his non-biased first impressions of us and his non-judgmental …show more content…

My wife and I had found that based on our first impressions of the waitress, that we were expecting a similar result with the waiter. In a sense, we were stereotyping the waiter even before we met him and continued to do so throughout our whole experience at the restaurant. We were judging everyone at the restaurant based on our initial experience, and not thinking about everyone on an individual basis. The waiter obviously wanted to make a great first impression, because he knew that if he did not that he would have to deal with the possibility of not receiving a tip. “Although impressions may well change as people get to know you better, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It’s best to make that first impression count in your favor” (Nevid, 2014, p.

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