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Analyzing Erikson's Eight Stages Of Development

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Erik Erikson “proposed a comprehensive developmental theory that included the entire life span” (38). His theory is composed of eight developmental stages that each has their own challenge. Starting from the day we were born all the way up to the day we die, we will have “traveled” through all eight developmental stages or challenges. Erikson’s theory was unlike others in the time period: Erikson believed that development occurs throughout the whole lifespan, not just until age 20 (notes). Similarly, Erikson, like Sigmund Freud “believed that problems of adult life echo unresolved childhood conflicts” (39). For example, if a person does not develop autonomy in early childhood, as an adult, they are likely to be dependent on others. Erikson …show more content…

During this stage, the young adult will either express intimacy through confiding in others and having a committed relationship or they will express isolation by having a difficult time confiding in others and expressing emotions. I scored an overall percentile rank of 4% for Intimacy and Isolation. I was very shocked when I first saw this number but after looking at the specifics of expressing intimacy, I understood why. The four qualifiers for intimacy are confiding in others, expressing deep feelings, having a committed relationship, and having trusting and deep relationships. I find myself not confiding in others due to not feeling like I can open up to them and not being able to trust them. I prefer to keep to myself to avoid being hurt or judged. I also agree that I don’t express deep feelings. Its not like I don’t have deep feelings it can just be hard for me to show those feelings. I think an aspect of why I don’t express my feelings comes from how I grew up. I have a very strong, positive and healthy home life but my family really doesn’t share our emotions with each other. We’ve never been the type to sit down and open up to each other. It will be interesting to see how my weakness in Intimacy and Isolation continues to develop. Now that I know I’m below average compared to women of my same age category, I may find myself confiding in others more. Once I get a stable circle of friends outside of college, …show more content…

A person of old age is able to express integrity through being satisfied with their own life and coming to a conclusion that life has had meaning or they can express despair feeling like they have lived life with lost opportunities and not having enough time left to change. Overall I ranked in the 79th percentile for this stage of development. Being close to above average in this stage means that I feel like life has meaning, I am satisfied with my own life and I am accepting of my own being. This score is true to me as I am very happy with my life and grateful for all the opportunities I have had thus

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