Analysis of Alice Munro's "How I Met My Husband"
"All of it is clear to a person who has understanding and right to those who have acquired knowledge." (Proverbs 8:6-9)
Alice Munro gives a good example of the meaning of this in her story "How I Met My Husband". The theme of this story is under certain circumstances people can sometimes be blind to the truth.
The main character, Edie, provides the narration of the story from a first person point of view. She tells her story based on an event from her past. Because she narrates the story the reader is unable to be sure if what she tells of the other characters is completely accurate. Because one does not hear other character's thoughts one could question whether Edie
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She was very responsible for her age because she took care of the Peebleses' two children and of their house. Yet, she was uneducated and did not know much about love or boys. She told of how she longed for a boyfriend or someone to kiss. Sometimes when you want things bad enough you begin to believe they are true. For example, because Edie really wanted someone to love her, she really believed Chris would send her a letter. However, if she would have examined his prior actions, like how he treated Alice, Edie could have come to the conclusion that there would be no letter.
Another character important in the story was Chris. He was a soldier in the war. Supposedly, he was engaged to Alice but from the way he treated her, one would question it. Also, he was cowardly because he ran away from her rather than telling her how he truly felt, he said, "…A plane can get further than a car". Also, the reader may believe he is running away from his feelings because of something deeper. Maybe the war had injured him emotionally or mentally. These factors will definitely make it hard to discover what is true.
Also, the character of Alice has some interesting meaning to the story. The character of Alice may be modeled after the author Alice Munro because they have shared similar experiences between men. Apparently, the author had been through a divorce and many of the
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Like Lucy, she grows up in a middle-class environment in the 1940s. Before she is shot, everyone thinks Alice is adorable, and she is constantly chosen by her father over her siblings. But the aftermath of the incident shows the fickleness of people: with an injured, blind eye, people stop admiring her; her father stops picking her first. She gets picked on and bullied in school, and even admits to beating up one kid who teased her. After getting a surgery that removes more unseemly parts of her injury, she gains confidence in herself, makes friends, and gets the “guy of her dreams.”
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Instead of just telling a story about other characters, Edwards tells a story about the very people listening. This amplifies his purpose in drawing more fear in the eyes of his listeners not just of characters in a story, but of themselves.
Mrs. Peebles had to explain to Edie that “being intimate means a lot more than that [kissing]...” (Munro, page 51). Everyday after Chris left, Edie would “go up to the mailbox and sit in the grass, waiting.” (Munro, page 52). She still had a child like faith that Chris would write her a letter. Edie is still showing that she is naïve, but she also is starting to show some aspects of realism.
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