Visualize your doctor giving you an atrocious news that you were going to die in less than 6 minutes. Would you be proud to die even if no one is ever prepared for that circumstance? “There comes a time when the world gets quiet and the only thing left is your own heart. So, you'd better learn the sound of it. Otherwise you'll never understand what it's saying. By Sarah Dessen,.” What do you do on your own spare time is very essential to how do you lived? by Rick Rigsby. As I look into the picture Truth is the Lie We Tell to Our self by Robert Lupton’s we tend to be untruth to ourselves about what we really do behind curtains and our disconnection. To begin with, as we look deeply into the picture we see a young guy who might be around his …show more content…
Simon Sinek stated almost every alcoholic discovered alcohol when they were teenagers. When we are very young the only approval we need is the approval of our parents and as we go through adolescence we make this transition where we now need the approval of our peers. As seen in the picture two phones which he keeps checking constantly because he is waiting for an approval of a friend or something on social media that will make him feel good but since he can’t find it through the phone, alcohol, gambling comes next. It’s a highly stressful and anxious period of our lives and we are supposed to learn to rely on our friends. Some people, quite by accident, discover alcohol, the numbing effects of dopamine, to help them cope with the stresses and anxieties of adolescence. Unfortunately, that becomes hard wired in their brains and for the rest of their lives, when they suffer significant stress, they will not turn to a person, they will turn to the bottle. Social stress, financial stress, career stress, that’s pretty much the primary reasons why an alcoholic drink. But now because we are allowing unfettered access to these devices and media, basically it is becoming hard wired and what we are seeing is that they grow older. The perfect reason why he seems disconnected because instead of him going to a friend house or at least relax himself, he calls his imagery friend the beer bottle, the gambling, the phone which a huge aspect in our world today because most of us are lacking communication which is killing each and every one of us because loneliness is not a friend but rather a silent
In the essay Plain Truth, James Chalmers believed that the colonies could not win a war against England, because Chalmers believes that America’s army is not strong enough to fight against the British. Chalmers recalls from Common Sense how it mentions that America has the largest disciplined army under the heaven, but if that is the truth, America wouldn’t need support from either Spain or French. Also, neither Spain or French would help America, because if they did, it would encourage their royal colonies to fight for their independence as well. America by its own power at this stage without the help of other countries would not be strong enough to be able to go against the British. Chalmer also mentions how common people would not fight
“We lie. We all do. We exaggerate, we minimize, we avoid confrontation, we spare people's feelings, we conveniently forget, we keep secrets, we justify lying to the big-guy institutions. Like most people, I indulge in small falsehoods and still think of myself as an honest person. Sure i lie, but it doesn't hurt anything.
Rumors tend to be successful not because of our logic or common sense, but because of our surroundings. In “Truth is in the Ear of the Beholder” by Gregory Rodriguez he analyzes how and why rumors are successful .There are many factors that may answer our question .But as Rodriquez states, “rumors thrive because those who hear them are predisposed to believe them”. People are not capabl3e of in taking I formation in an unbiased manner, as studies have uncovered. Reason for this being is what Rodrigues calls, “biased assimilation “this means people will process information given to them that agrees or identifies with their beliefs .Any
In “Young Goodman Brown,” Nathaniel Hawthorne portrays a married man disillusioned by the townspeople’s complicity in evil. In the tale, Brown discovers that every wholesome person he knows, including his wife, are in league with the devil. His life after the night that he discovers this truth is one of cynicism and depression, as he regards everyone to be a facade of who they truly are. Conventional wisdom would uphold this condemnation of dishonesty. However, in Judith Viorst’s “The Truth About Lying,” she presents a reality where various types of dishonesty-social, peacekeeping, protective, trust-keeping- are necessary. I believe that lying is morally right only if it facilitates harmonious social interactions between people. Lies meant
and spanned a course of some twenty years. Two decades of conflict and disharmony that seemed to connect with many of the attendees displayed by their numerous head nods and looks of shared shame. He said he never intended to become an alcoholic. He was just trying to “fit in” with friends. Another reason given for using alcohol was to squash the stress and anxieties all too familiar with the formative years of pre-adulthood. “Little did I know”, he said that he was setting the stage for how to handle all his subsequent problems later in life.
Young people have been attracted to alcohol since the early 1820’s, and it “...has rattled authorities around the world for centuries” (Clark 5). Through the 1800’s and into the 1900’s, “...anti-saloon activists helped to pass Prohibition in 1919 by circulating pictures of children sneaking alcohol out of taverns” (Clark 5). Teen drinking, however, climbed quickly after World War II and proceeded in an upward motion up into, “...the early 1970’s…[where there was a] successful movement to give 18-year-olds the right to vote” (Clark 6). And with
People drink in many ways, for many different reasons. We drink socially, to gain acceptance into a group. We drink alone to ease stress, to cope with our problems, or we “drink because we like the taste or how it makes us feel”#. Often drinking is a learned behavior, starting out as a social drinker; you quickly become psychologically and physically dependent. When someone reaches this stage they are often classified as an alcoholic. To an alcoholic, drinking becomes a compulsion; they cannot stop themselves from having another drink, like a social drinker can. In many cases alcoholics don’t even have to drink continuously in order to be an alcoholic. One the problems of alcohol addiction is that it’s something that doesn’t just effect the individual but it effects, friends and family as well. Spouse abuse, child abuse and dysfunctional family relationships can all be influenced by alcohol abuse.
When an individual believes, and expects, to have positive effects from a certain drug (e.g., drinking alcohol to reduce stress and anxiety), the likelihood that the individual will abuse the drug is extremely high. Sociocultural factors also play a vital role in how frequently a substance is used, with family and friends being the most influential. A broken family home (e.g., marital problems, parent/sibling alcohol or drug use, and legal or psychiatric problems) can have a tremendous negative effect on a child and the decisions they make. A lack of emotional support from parents is found to increase drug use, whereas the lack of parental monitoring if often associated with higher drug use (Kring, 2014). The idea of being “popular” and having a ton of friends seems to be a common goal for the majority of adolescents and young adults. Social influence is explained by the fact that having peers who drink, influences drinking behavior; however, it is also known that individuals will choose friends with drinking patterns similar to their own. While growing up, most of us have always been told to choose our friends wisely; however, they neglected to tell us how difficult this can be.
Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) is one of the most common mental disorders globally and along with anxiety and substance abuse, it accounts for over 50% of the disability adjusted years (DALY) globally (Evaluation 2013). MDD causes persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest that last at least 2 weeks and can affect an individual’s biological, motivational and cognitive functions.
Throughout the centuries, social inequalities between males and females have never failed to negatively affect societal behaviour, social relations and accentuate the gender split. This inequality towards women has always been reflected in literature especially by the notion of female madness. Whether it be by Shakespeare’s Macbeth with the famous strange and demented Lady Macbeth or Charlotte Bronte’s Jane Eyre with the renowned Bertha Mason, the assumed “mad women in the attic,” there has always been curiosity surrounding the “mad woman” in literature due to it's intriguing and fascinating aspect. Shakespeare’s Lady Macbeth is conflicted between femininity and masculinity by her ruthlessness and thrust for power and sheds light on gender-based
Every problem has a beginning, where the domino effect starts. In most cases people get started drinking not because they like it, but because it is illegal and it gives them a chance to rebel. The so-called “rebel” becomes bored of drinking alone and eventually seeks “company” when they are drinking. The only catch is that the “rebel” can not be the only one drinking so the “company” has to drink. This is where the problem with peer pressure and teenage drinking begins and the first domino starts the chain reaction. There are two types of peer pressure. There is direct peer pressure where a subject’s peers actually force him into having a drink. There is also indirect peer pressure where the subject enters a setting and his peers are drinking so he decides to have a drink to fit in with the rest of his peers (Articles-Teenage Drinking 2). Surveys show that alcohol abuse is related to teenage activities such as going on dates and going to parties (Teenage Alcohol Misuse 2).
Social and cultural factors play roles in to establishing drinking patterns and the development of alcoholism. In some cultures, there is conflict between abstaining and accepting the use of alcohol as a way to change moods or to be social, thus making it difficult for some people to develop stable attitudes about and moderate patterns of drinking. Society tends to aid in the development of alcoholism by making alcohol seem glamorous, showing that by drinking, you will become more popular, more glamorous and more worthy of respects from others.
Alcohol and drug abuse has been an active habit among college students sense the 1960s. The immediate cause of this behavior was the youth’s need to rebel against the overly conservative American society. This rebellion led to a since of freedom for the young adults, which caused them to continue acting in these unintelligent manners. After a short period of time, late teens just did not belong if they were not participating in the mischievous acts. Substance abuse quickly became a way of life for many young adults. As a result, this inapt behavior still continues today.
Alcohol is very popular among people who are looking for a good time, but it is also a very addicting and evil thing. Most people try alcohol for the first time in their teen years even though it is against the law. Most of the time people try it because their friends drink. People who are weak minded are easily influenced by their friends to try out bad habits like alcohol, and at the end the only one it affects is that one person. That person will become dependant on alcohol and build a tolerance to it. Every week they drink more and more it will never be enough because they will always need a bigger amount of alcohol to satisfy them every time. That is how people become alcoholics. Alcoholics lose everything they have and own. Alcohol becomes everything they can ever think about, it takes over their life and in some cases it also takes their life.
The Scarlet Letter was set in Massachusetts Bay Colony during the 1600’s. This society is built upon with Puritans beliefs and systems, which affects Hester Prynne as she lives in this Puritan society. Nathaniel Hawthorne, author of The Scarlet Letter, exposes Hester Prynne as an adulterer with the Letter A adhered on her chest. The people of the town afflicted and bedeviled Hester. Everyday for her was filled with shame and affliction of her sin, so was her daughter Pearl. Pearl was considered as a sin of her parents actions, which one of them is paying the price. The father of pearl, which happens to be Arthur Dimmesdale, buries his guilt, for the sin he committed, deeper into his heart, which caused him to be insane. In this Puritan society, people are constantly doing actions that gains them their pleasure. They start by harassing and inflicting pain to the people who brought shame to their society, which are Hester and Pearl. Satisfying their sadistic nature, by deriving pleasure to themselves. As a result, women in this society also use their hypocritical ways to gain pleasure by their humiliating conversations.