The American dream for the Walls family was to be able to freely explore, adventure to the fullest, and to achieve your goals no matter how you get there. Jeannette Walls tells the story of her home life involving an alcoholic father, supportive siblings, and the thought that you can achieve what you want in the world despite the challenges. In the Glass Castle, Jeanette Walls displays that everyone has their own american dream that comes with cost and struggle to produce a beautiful outcome. As the book follows the life of Jeannette, her dream starts out as a fantasy of hope for her father. When her father was sober he was her best friend. Yet he developed a drinking problem right before Jeannette was born, that developed and worsened over the span of her life. Her mother accounts that when they lost a child, his drinking started, ¨Dad however, wouldn’t talk about Mary Charlene...He was the one who found her body in the crib, and Mom, couldn't believe how much it shook him up…‘he was in shock or something, cradling her stiff little body in his arms... he screamed like a wounded animal’...He started having dark moods,staying out late and coming home drunk and losing jobs,¨(Walls 28).
When this happened, he also started losing his jobs and not supporting his family. Jeannette always defended him nevertheless, “‘Dad has to start carrying his weight,’ Lori said as she stared into the empty refrigerator. ‘He does!’ I said. ‘He brings in money from odd jobs.’ ‘He spends more than he earns on booze,’ Brian said” (Walls 78). Even her father knows that she had the strongest faith in him, as he would tell her, “‘I swear, honey, there are times when I think you’re the only one around who still has faith in me,’ he said. ‘I don’t know what I’d do if you ever lost it.’ I told him that I would never lose faith in him. And I promised myself I never would,’” (Walls 79). Although as Jeannette started growing older, the drinking problems, drunk episodes, and no income started started to put a strain on their relationship. Rex told her, for her tenth birthday that he would get her whatever she wanted, even if he died trying. It was hard for Jeannette to admit to him, but she told him the one wish she had, “I took a breath
The NIAAA states that alcohol affects parents around the world. In Jeannette's case, she uses this as an example to portray the abusive and negative things that happen due to it. Jeannette and her siblings face the negligence of their own needs as growing
Throughout her early childhood, she ignores her father's drunken escapades, and thinks of him as a loving father and excellent teacher of the wild. It isn't until her junior year of high school that she realizes the indisputable flaws her father has. She resents Dad's drinking and how he constantly lets her and the rest of the family down yet never openly admits it or allows his flaws to be discussed. Jeannette also begins to resent her mother, whom she’s never been close to. Some cause of her resentment includes her mom’s refusal to hold down a job long enough to provide her kids with a stable food supply, especially since Rex won’t be providing like he says he will. This resentment eventually motivates her to move away from her parents and Welch. She ends up in New York City with her sister Lori in which she focuses on her studies and becomes a successful journalist. Jeannette is a natural forgiver and it shows even when she moves away from her parents, but this doesn’t stop her from being haunted by her past and with her transition from poverty into the upper-middle class. By the end of the novel, Jeannette is a symbol of the resilience and
As an innocent child, Jeannette greatly admired her father. She writes, “Everybody said Dad was a genius. … Dad was also inventing things, too. … In my mind, Dad was perfect, although he did have what Mom called a little bit of a drinking situation” (Walls 22-23). Although Jeannette admits that her father has a “drinking situation,” she takes great pride in having a father who was a respected inventor. Jeannette conveys a tone of great reverence towards her father; she does so in order to emphasize the change in her perspective of Rex as she matures. On her tenth birthday, Jeannette asked her father, “Do you think you could maybe stop drinking?” (Walls 116). This suggests that she admits that her father’s little drinking situation is, in fact, a big drinking situation. Jeannette’s perspective on her father only gets more negative as she admits that Rex is dragging the family down and she tells Rose Mary, “Mom, we can’t go on living like this. … Mom, you have to leave Dad” (Walls 187-188). Finally, Jeannette comes to accept that the Glass Castle, which symbolizes an ideal future, is nothing more than a mirage. She once again watches as “the hole for the Glass Castle’s foundation slowly filled with garbage” (Walls 155). Before leaving for New York, Jeannette tells her father, “Go ahead and build the Glass Castle, but don’t do it for me” (Walls 238). As
Through everybody’s eyes is their own version of the American Dream. Whether it’s the stereotypical dream with a good job, a family, and a house with a white picket fence, or it could be just getting by at the end of the month financially. The American Dream doesn’t have a specific image but rather a particular mindset. Lots of people have a goal in their life that they have to work hard to be successful towards that goal, but in most cases that goal may be unrealistic.
The idea of the American dream revolves around attaining happiness, success and equality. For higher wealth classes obtaining these components aren't a concern; but for many, the American Dream has become a nightmare. For the poor being able to obtain simple necessities such as food, clothing and shelter is a daily struggle. The price of being poor is a lot costlier then those in the realm of the wealthy. Based on the current economic and social systems in America it does not provide everyone with a fair chance to achieve the “American Dream”. In todays society many Americans believe money is the only way to happiness. True or not true, money certainly isn't a hindrance to obtaining the necessary components for survival. But if the American Dream is no longer about happiness and freedom it becomes solely about wealth and possession. "Money cannot buy happiness." (Anonymous, Spring Board pg.81) represents the concept that money doesn't necessarily play apart in your emotional well-being. Today, materialism is more important than character. Money isn't everything; you don't need it to be happy and certainly not to achieve "The American Dream". In addition to that, although money can jump-start your future it can also drive you into the ground. Dana Gioia, the author of "Money", says "...Money holds heads above water..." Implying money plays a crucial part in keeping your dreams alive while America demands so much. Although finances are a building block to ones version of the
David Kamp's 2009 Vanity Fair article "Rethinking the American Dream" focuses on the general perception of the ‘American Dream’ and how it has evolved throughout our nation’s history. It clearly states that as the average American household's lifestyle has become more and more consumer-oriented, the original spirit that invigorated and united its people from the age of western expansion to the Great Depression has begun to fade. The dream has been dampened as the vision of "success" has become more focused on gaining material/getting rich quick, rather than working hard all throughout one’s life to attain what they want and desire.
Jeannette, during her childhood, always looked forward to building "The Glass Castle". Her and her father would always talk about how it would be self sufficient in the desert with solar panels and made completely out of glass. This gave Jeannette hope for the future. When Jeannette is an adult, she loses sight of believing in her family and tries to push them out of her life causing her to be more unhappy. But, by the end she came to her senses and went and visited her father while he was sick.
While her father’s dismisses his destructive nature, Jeannette becomes conscious of his actions which motivates her to make amends in hopes of leaving their desolate life. Instead of getting help for his childhood trauma, Rex immerses himself in alcohol causing him to become
People will journey far and wide, traverse the entire continent, suffer all manner of pain and suffering, if they believe that, in the end, they will be rewarded. That is why it comes as no surprise when people from other countries struggle to get to America, believing the ancient tale of "the American Dream", convinced that they will finally make it big in this land of riches. But they find out it is not like that.
What is the American Dream? Is it home ownership, gaining fame or wealth, having a great family or is it gaining a peace of mind? Many people have different versions of what the American Dream is, some people believe the dream is lost, and some people are right in the middle and still believe the American Dream is still alive. “The American Dream” by Brandon King debates about what the true state is left in the American Dream now. Throughout the essay, King asks if the American Dream is dead, alive, on hold or just changing due to economic hardship. King believes that the American Dream is still alive even though there are people who believe it's not, and is defined today as the ability to work hard, plan for the forthcoming and have a
Jeannette’s self-reliant behavior is frequently shown through her refusal of help from others. On one trip to retrieve her father from a bar, Jeannette’s father is so drunk that he can no longer walk. Another man offers to drive them home, and
When Jeannette’s family is picked up on the highway by a nice lady in a Buick. She says to them how she “can't leave those poor people out there” (Walls 121), referring to them as the poor people. In response to this Jeannette’s “Dad disappeared” (Walls 121) as soon as they were dropped off. this is a typical coping strategy often used by her dad when he encounters a stressful situation. Furthermore he uses alcohol as a way to relieve those stresses, but really only makes it worse as he broke his promise to stay sober for his daughter. Therefore sending him into a downward spiral of alcohol abuse, making him feel worse. This coping strategy was obviously not an effective strategy as it just made his life
America historically owns the reputation of being the land of opportunity, and for generations immigrants have fled to the United States to experience the freedom and equality our government lays claim to. At the root of this reputation is the American Dream, the belief that with hard work anyone can succeed based solely on his or her merits. While definitions of success vary, the American Dream defines it as the ability to become a "self-made man," thereby rising to a more-than-comfortable state of living. The American Dream is believed to be blind to race, sex, or socio-economic status and at a first glance, seems to be almost Utopian. Conversely, repeated examples and statistics of the lower-classes, those continually facing the harsh
Over time, The American Dream has changed in an innumerable amount of ways. Past civilizations have laid the foundation for what we view it to be today. In the 1970s, people looked at a variety of aspects such as culture, political affairs (government), one’s appearance, and entertainment to fit their definition of “The American Dream”. The 1970’s helped shape and influence what people regard as the current American Dream.
“Dreams feel real while we’re in them. It’s only when we wake up that we realize something was actually strange. -Inception” (50 Dream Quotes). Carroll writes Through the Looking Glass based off of the dream concept. This novel is strange compared to most because of the dream Alice has. In the beginning, Alice is playing with her kittens. As she drifts off to sleep, Alice goes through the mirror and enters Looking Glass World. While there, Alice joins a chess game as a pawn. She continues across the board and meets all sorts of characters who help Alice in her journey to become Queen. She meets the Red Queen, White Queen, Humpty Dumpty, and White Knight in different squares throughout the game. When she reaches the honor of Queen, Alice is