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Analysis Of ' Arm Wrestling With My Father ' And Shooting Dad ' By Brad Manning And Sarah Vowell

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The Inability to Recognize Different Types of Love

Both “Arm Wrestling with My Father” and “Shooting Dad” written by Brad Manning and Sarah Vowell, respectively, portrays a damaged and rough relationship that a son and/or daughter holds with his father. Although they both find themselves struggling, they are dealing with different things, Manning is dealing with a physical bounding, while Vowell finds herself handling a more emotional and communicative type of bonding. Eventually, both characters find themselves in a mature relationship over time. The characters had similarities and also differences with their respective father. Throughout the stories, both authors dig into the relationship between child and father and how it can be shaped and changed over time.

The difference between the bounding and the way affection is shown it’s critical. Manning find himself with a physical and somehow of psychological while Vowell find herself with a more emotional relationship with more communication. Manning mentions, “We never communicated as well in speech or in writing […]” (1, paragraph 2), the bounding between Manning and his father wasn’t emotional, instead a more physical and psychological, were Manning always felt like the ‘inferior’ since his father is the dominant and always beat him in arm wrestling. Basically, Manning’s father transmitted love to his son through competition, and through “His [physical] words” (1, paragraph 3). In Vowell’s life, his father is more in

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