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Amy Tan 's The Joy Luck Club

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“Then you must teach my daughter this same lesson. How to lose your innocence but not your hope. How to laugh forever”, Amy Tan wrote in The Joy Luck Club. This powerful quote not only exhibits the mindset that Amy has formed over the years, but also how various lessons has shaped her inner-being. Overcoming a past were all the odds were against her, even her mother, leaves Tan’s story worth being heard. Amy’s mixed heritage made adapting to the free life of America from an authoritarian Chinese parenting style difficult. The pivotal moment that altered Amy Tan’s life the most was breaking free from the philosophy that she had to chose one culture instead of accepting both.
When Tan was twelve years old, one of her friends’ died. Daisy, …show more content…

“I had new thoughts, willful thoughts, or rather thoughts filled with lots of wont’s. I won’t let her change me, I promised myself. I won’t be what I’m not.” (pg.134) Amy can personally relate to this quote from The Joy Luck Club because her mother wanted her to be a doctor and a pianist. Not only was accomplishing this dream her mother set for her time consuming, but it also was not what Amy aspired to be. Daisy was trying to live through Amy, which made Amy even more determined to do what she felt made her happy.
Another book that Amy published that focuses on mother-daughter relationships was The Valley of Amazement. In addition to discussing mother-daughter relationships, this novel also expounds on family secrets and trauma. Tan can relate to family secrets because her mother left her three daughters’ in China which affected the way her mother raised her. Daisy also held the secret of her mother, who committed suicide when Daisy was nine, and the ghost she left behind. Also, Amy experienced trauma when she lost both her brother and father due to brain tumors only six months apart. Having to cope with the death of her loved ones and living up to the unbearable standards of her mother, Amy chose to please herself first. Amy Tan wrote “The life we receive is not always what we chose”, in The Valley of Amazement. This can show how Amy was not satisfied with where her life was going so she decided to change her

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