I am a first generation college student and while I have always wanted to attend college, I haven’t continuously received support from my family. Both my parents grew up in families with tight economical situations with my fathers being exceptionally limited. Therefore they both were never able to attend higher education. My father has never truly seen the value of an education and at first didn’t believe that I should attend college at all, partly due to the cost. On the other hand my mother desperately wants me to attend college but is also worried about the cost. In the fall of my junior year I began taking college credit plus classes at Ohio State University, Newark and Central Ohio Technical College in order to cut down on college cost and get a head start on my education. I choose to take matters into my own hands and pick a path to my future. As a result I was finally able to convince my father that despite his beliefs, college is the right choice for me. …show more content…
In the past I have experienced bullying and discrimination from those around me. I attend a small high school in licking county Ohio that is rather undiverse, so anyone that is seen as remotely different is targeted. Throughout the years I have experienced the normal slurs and jeers from my high school peers, as well as the disapproval from my father and his side of the family. I have learned over time that in order to continue on, I need to develop a tougher skin and not always listen to the opinions of others, no matter how destructive they may be. I have discovered that I am the only one that can hold myself back and have the ability achieve my dreams however I shall
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Twenty-six years ago. I began the quest to find the perfect college. As I drove down the driveway of Bay Path College, I knew this was the college I was going to attend. I was drawn to the rural setting, the beautiful campus and the small academic community. My intent for life after high school was to get my associates degree, earn some money, then begin working toward my bachelor degree. In retrospect, I did not possess the confidence or drive needed to be a good student. I struggled for the next couple of years to earn my Associates degree, however was apprehensive to commit to the time or expense it would take to continue my education. After a very long break in schooling, I now approach education with a new mindset and ready to commit
Once my brother graduated high school, my mother moved 500 miles away, to Connecticut. I decided to remain at home in West Virginia with my father. For various reasons, such as drugs and alcohol, living with him was no longer in my best interest. At this time, I was half way through high school. For a few months, I spent time living with friends. Before long, my grandmother, who I'm not particularly close to, graciously allowed me to live with her. She lives below the poverty line. In order to live in her house, I was driven to support myself. I work between 20-30 hours a week, which allows me to pay for bills, my vehicle, food, and etc. As soon as I graduate, I will be living on my own, and paying for my college tuition, by myself. It is difficult now to make ends meet, and in the coming college year the financial difficulty will greatly increase. I am endeavoring through these hard times, and I will only continue to do that by keeping my grades up as well as having the endless
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I am a first-generation college student. My parents never got passed high school. They were both faced with hardship and had no choice but to get a job to deal with the responsibilities of home. My dad left India at the age of 16 to build a better life for himself and my mom in America. In my household, education has always been a priority. Since my parents have felt firsthand how life is like without a degree, they made it their mission to ingrain in us a value for education like no other. However, there have been many situations in which I have found myself lost and looking for answers about college. Sadly, by being a first-generation student, my parents could not help me. Not only could they not help me, but being the first to attend college
Upon entering Cal State LA, my goal was and still is to attain a business education focusing on accounting to aid in commencing a satisfying long career. To accomplish this goal, I have had to make disillusioning sacrifices that have left my family saddened, particularly my mother, as I am not present at events where she wishes to see all her children together. My partner has also had to endure similar absences, however she understands my reasoning and in contrast, is supportive and keeps me motivated, and for much more than just that, I am beholden to her. The desire for my family’s better future, the motive behind my actions, keeps me advancing. My strong work ethic can be seen in the grades I have earned at this university. I did not just want to complete my courses, I wanted to excel and in so proving to the self-doubt in me that I do have the intelligence and dedication to succeed. I transferred during the spring of 2015 with an overall grade point average of 2.33. By staying focused while working at McDonald’s and attending school full time, I have earned only A’s and now maintain a core grade average of 3.97, raising my overall cumulative to 2.701. I am
My parents raised me to believe in the importance of education. After completing his 2nd year of college, my dad had no other option but to drop out. His dream of becoming an engineer would never come true and his struggles to make a living began. My parents gave up their ambitions in order for me to have my own. They always strived to ensure me of a proper education that’d empower me to be whoever or whatever I aspired to be. I want to pursue a degree at Georgia Tech because the highly acclaimed academics, renowned research facilities, and exceptional staff the university offers will bring me a step closer to my dreams: to be the first person in my family not only to earn a 4-year degree, but to also be an engineer. That’s my parents’ dream,
Being a woman, a first generation college student and growing up in a collectivist culture, I find it very difficult to pursue my education. In addition to this, there are always a lots of ups and downs when having a business in jewellery industry. This has made it very difficult for my parents to afford my tuition. As a result, I have been taking 12 credits every term and this has been affecting my graduation plan. In order to finish my degree on time, I started taking courses at Portland Community College for which I try paying the tuition out of my pocket from my part time job.
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First, let me justify why my desires for college are so big. My father was raised in Mexico, a known poor country. He had to quit high school to help provide for his family, something he constantly reminds my sister and me of when we grumble about school. He works so many hours to make sure we have a good private school education and everything we need. In the few past months, I
There are some financial challenges that I will face with my new educational opportunities. Since I am about to finish Dual-Graduation, I have already had to pay full college tuition, books, and gas to drive to school. These expenses are worsened because of my high school status; I can’t receive financial aid. With this road-block, I have been working part-time in Branson as a photographer to help pay school expenses. I am extremely thankful that my parents have aided in my tuition. Unfortunately, my father is in school to earn his master’s and my mother is going to beauty school, so I’m not the only person in my household who will have student debt. Normally this wouldn’t have been an issue but my mother lost her job last fall and so my family’s
No matter how challenging the obstacles may be that venture in my path, my determination and drive to excel in all endeavors is by far my strongest attribute. Being the first member in my family to attend a 4-year university is an honor nonetheless, but it comes with a great deal of financial sacrifice. As I prepare to start my sophomore year of college as a full time student studying criminal justice, I am beset by the reality of the massive amount of debt in which I will eventually bury my mother. As a single mother, it is hard enough to try to make ends meet, but to pay for college is a whole other beast to defeat. Although it is upsetting to witness the way tuition greatly increases every year, it is well out of my character to fathom the
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