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Alex Parbellon Poverty

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The article “Poverty, Wealth, and Having the Right Feelings,” by Alex Pabellon, brings awareness to the idea that our status can affect our ability to empathize with others. First, it explains a movie in which ethnic tensions are high, and when a black man is strangled and killed by the police, another African American man, Mookie, throws a trash can through his white employer’s window and starts a riot. Pabellon says he struggles to side with Mookie as he knows his actions were wrong. He took his anger out on his employer who had treated him fairly, rather than the police. Frequently, it is white people that have this perspective as well. This leads Pabellon to question if his “position as an educated, upwardly mobile black man already dulled [his] empathy.” He then goes on to describe a study that showed that those who felt good about themselves would address their partner’s experience …show more content…

While he also says we are supposed to heal and serve, pity is a noun that provokes feeling more than acting. Pity can be defined as “the feeling of sorrow and compassion caused by the suffering and misfortunes of others.” While I agree with the fact that we should not waste our energy being angry with the rich and powerful, I think we need to do more than just take pity on the vulnerable. Yes, we should empathize and show compassion, but strictly taking pity is not the most effective route. However, Pabellon does continue to say that when we see wounds, we should help. As I hope to pursue a job in the Human Services field, I will definitely work with people with deep wounds. I think it is important to directly help the individual rather than focusing on changing the people at the top of the system. While that is also important, I agree with the article in that it is more important to feel alongside those who are

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