Post Service Life can be a real battlefield for service members and their families. Often the media emphasizes in how many military man and woman are being deployed but little is heard about what they go through once they come home where another battle awaits them. Military members suffer an immediate separation while away from their loved ones, but once reunited they have to adapt and reintegrate to their household and their community. Depression, PTSD, feeling like a failure as a parent and as a spouse are some of the emotional feelings service members suffer after war, while their children and families try to accept them back in their lives. Several magazines and journals have been written to make this issue known and help others understand …show more content…
While soldiers are at war they suffer torture, gunshots, starvation and other dramatic events which can affect their lives forever. It is very difficult for some to reintegrate into their families and their position as the man and leader of the house. There are 75% of veterans that look for behavioral health services, 40.7% of these veterans reported they feel like stranger in their own house and 37.2% that their children are somehow afraid of being close to them and they cannot seem to have love feelings about them, (Balderrama-Durbin, Cigrang, Osborne, Snyder, Talcott, Slep & Sonnek, 2015). There have been some deep investigations done to man and woman who have served, and the results showed that indeed it is a challenge for service members and their families to reintegrate in their homes and society. Balderrama-Durbin, Cigrang, Osborne, Snyder, Talcott, Slep & Sonnek demonstrated that at least 18.8% of airmen have moderate to severe difficulties in more than one aspects of reintegration such as intimate relationship distress, shared commitment depression symptoms, PTSD, etc… Also that 56.3% had moderate to severe issues in one aspect. Soldiers are always in a battlefield. First they are in a war zone then they get home and have to deal with all this …show more content…
Psychological problems, the absence of the loved one, the uncertainty to know if their loved ones are alive or dead are challenges that take a toll on these families emotional well-being, (Park, 2011). Relocation is one challenge these families often experience. Park believes that children experienced a change in chores, schools, friends, and environment which can affect their emotional and psychological health (2011). History has shown that family members have a strong way of adaptation and endurance. However, in recent years, deployments have been more frequent and military members stay away from home for longer periods of time. The happiest moment in their lives is when they are all reunited that is why the length and frequency of deployment can make a difference for service members and their families. The shorter and less frequent the time of deployment, the less of a risk for
To summarize (Kaplow, Layne, Saltztman, Cozza & Pynoos, 2013, p. 322-340) this article looks at how grief through exposure to loss due to combat fights, loss of fellow unit members, or the loss of a service member can affect a service member or military family during deployment and reintegration phases. The article goes on to discuss some of the stresses that can increase due to deployments such as martial conflicts, abuse or neglect, and mental health problems stemming from both spouses or children. More military children function equally as well as their civilian counterparts, except during times of deployment where they experience more emotional and behavioral problems. The article looks at three key areas Separation distress characterized as missing the deceased. Existential/Identity Distress finding meaning or fulfillment, or taking on roles left by the deceased. Circumstance-Related Distress characterized as emotional pain brought on by how the deceased passed. The article furthermore looks into how the age of the military children plays into their separation distress. Followed by their existential/identity Distress may be disrupted by new
The main point of this article was that recently deployed service members and their families are affected by the deployment. A research was conducted in order to see what kinds of effects deployment had on military families, to include if a service member returned with symptoms of
There is a large amount of military families around the world. About Forty- three percent of active military members have children (Website). These children face so many challenges and struggles in their life while having a parent in the military. Children of Active duty military members exhibit anxiety, depression and stress just as much as the service members and spouses experience. For instance the children experience going through multiple deployments, long separations, frequent moves and awkward reunions when their parents return home from deployment. Even more so if the parent has been physically or mentally traumatized from overseas.
“Studies of OEF/OIF combat veterans have revealed that rates of PTSD are higher in deployed soldiers compared to non-deployed soldiers (Buchanan, C. et al., p.743).” Unfortunately, in some cases, military spouses are not fully aware of the symptoms for PTSD. Some feel powerless and unsure on what to do when symptoms begin damaging their relationship with their love one. Broadly speaking, military couples who are challenged with a deployment suffer more stress which may lead to PTSD when they do not know how to obtain support when needed, have lower income, and are not satisfied with the military and it's missions. Other factors that may dictate the degree of stress for military couples facing a deployment are income, education, and rank. Couples who have had prior military experience such as having military parents or serving a number of years preceding a deployment may adapt well to the demands of military life. Overall, relationship satisfaction may result if couples possess excellent communication and marital quality. Greater emphasis on military assistance has been to shown to reduce stress in couples, but spouses who perceive the military as being “less concerned” for them and their love one usually experience higher levels of stress. Also, unenthusiastic emotions toward the mission in the middle east can be related to greater stress in couples. “Negative attitudes toward the U.S. Missions in Iraq and Afghanistan were associated with more stress (Allen, E.
The information presented from the two articles above can be supported by the article by Frueh and Stencel. Veterans ' experiences in war are likely to go beyond the instantaneous and physical effects, which may affect their entire lives. According to Frueh and Stencel, more than 2.2 million troops from the United States served in the Afghanistan and Iraq wars (10). In the two wars, more than 6,600 troops from the United States lost their lives. Frueh and Stencel assert that a substantial percentage of veterans experience enormous difficulties while in transition. The use of statistics is helpful in elevating the quality of the article. They acknowledge that veterans are faced with far-reaching challenges in their effort to adjust to civilian life. For example, health problems- such as PTSD and traumatic brain injuries- are common among veterans. However, with high jobless rates and shrinking aid programs, these aren 't the best days to be
The definition of reintegration has been defined as “the process of transitioning back into personal and organizational roles after deployment (Currie, Day, & Kelloway, 2011).” While reintegration may bring images of family homecomings and welcome home parties, it is not that simple for the returning veteran. According to a survey conducted by the Department of Veteran Affairs (VA), 40 percent of surveyed military members returning from deployment reported experienced a high level of difficulty reintegrating into civilian life (Sayer et al., 2010). Many difficulties can arise when returning home from deployment. Some of those barriers are examined here.
Previously stated were the effects of war service remain a significant part of those who served. But let us not forget the families of veterans are also involved and impacted as well; dealing with changes and facing new challenges. Henry was struggling with not being able to relate to his family aftertime given to his country. “He jumpy and mean… [And] people got to leaving him alone” (580). In the article, “Impact Of Vietnam War Services On Veterans Perceptions Of Family Life”, Charles Hendrix and Lisa Anelli focused on at the ending of toured veterans dealing with PTSD and family satisfaction. This statement within the article was profound and appropriate, “Many Vietnam veterans returned back to their home countries at the end of their tour,
I retain an increased value and compassion toward the military community since this experience. Our society praises and dedicates media to the individuals fighting for our freedom, yet fails to discuss the harsh reality that many veterans face when returning home from war – homelessness, mental illness, relationship failures, and inability to acquire a job. In an essence, our society takes military veterans for granted. We can support and cheer them on while they fight for our freedom, yet we neglect their freedom when they return to the United States. It stands truly heartbreaking how many veterans survive the war, yet find themselves struggling to live in their own nation. At the VA, I noticed that many Veterans, while appearing tough and strong, do not mind discussing their mental health and the components of life they struggle with. I noticed that while the veterans will state where they served and their purpose in the war, they tend to shift the topic away from their service. I am not sure whether this behavior relates to their humble personalities, an inability to discuss military information, or emotional pain. No matter the reason, the “brotherhood” of military veterans remains evident. Veterans connect on a level society will never understand. They are a family that does not discriminate one another based on race, mental health, age, or gender. After
The United States of America has a crisis existing within its population of returning veterans. More and more, we see veterans of the war in Iraq, the war in Afghanistan, and the war on Terror, return with not only debilitating physical wounds, but longer lasting psychological wounds of war. Furthermore, there’s a stigma with mental health in the country which dictates; if you seek help for mental health issues, you’re weak. This isn’t only a problem amongst returning veterans, but all citizens. The returning warrior shouldn’t have to go speak with someone about their feelings. This is a common utterance heard when veterans return. The epidemic of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) amongst returning veterans, combined with the stigma of weakness and worthlessness for seeking help, is creating an almost impossible transition between military and civilian life. Not only are veterans experiencing issues with PTSD and other psychological afflictions having to battle with these afflictions, but they are finding themselves having difficulty finding help along with trying to cope with an otherwise insensitive and naïve population of people; some of whom are completely incapable of understanding, let alone empathy towards any situation besides their own. The review you are about to read serves as research into methods of coping, as well as helpful tactics for the reintegrating veteran.
War has tremendous effects on the human mind and impacts all parties involved. Remnants of war can dramatically affect relationships with loved ones and create greater problems ranging from financial problems to psychological damage that has more profound effects on the family infrastructure and its operation. The notion of war produces pressures and strains on the family that is not experienced everyday in the routine family life. Family member who experience PTSD from their service in the military also places unforeseen weights and consequences for the family to carry. There are specific effects distinct to a parent, a spouse, and children when a loved one is serving their country. The relationships between a service men and these family members are transformed with the absence and their reintegration.
“The soldiers that served in Vietnam were portrayed as baby killers, psychos, drug addicts and war mongers. It was not an uncommon scene for returning soldiers to be confronted at airports by protesters carrying signs with anti-war slogans,” (Coming Home: A Study in Contrast). Soldiers were called horrible names by many Americans and were not treated well when they returned. They had a very hard time readjusting to everyday life after the war due to society’s attitude and actions towards the veteran. Overall, this did not help soldiers coming back from combat readjust and made this situation worse without accounting for other aspects such as syndrome like post-traumatic stress disorder. Although soldiers nowadays are treated with open arms and are considered heroes, their transition back to everyday life is different. When soldiers return home from combat, they are regularly greeted by family and friends eagerly waiting for them to return and see them for the first time since their deployment. In addition to the warm welcoming, soldiers are given a period of time where they can collect unemployment and slowly make their transition back to everyday life. They also receive help for PTSD and other disorders they might suffer from. Society’s attitude has changed a tremendous amount towards soldiers coming home from war over time and has continued to be better and more helpful
With the ever growing epidemic of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and extended and more frequent deployments, the supportive approach is not only utilized, but is essential. The average deployment for the Army is 12 months deployed, followed by 12 months at home station, quite an extended separation from family. Reports have also shown that 5.5% of the population has been diagnosed with PTSD, whereas 13.2% have been identified within operational military units that have been deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan (Crum-Cianflone, Frasco, Armenta, Phillips, Horton, Ryan, Leardmann, 2015). These numbers emphasize the importance of leaders within the military to utilize the supportive approach to provide for their follower’s well being and assist
Due to conflict in the Middle East, American families are coping with deployment and the stress that comes along with it. Deployment of American armed forces to conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan have been a cause of anxiety for military and their family members (Link & Palinkas, p. 376, 2013). According to the Department of Defense, “Over 2.1 million troops have been deployed in support of these conflicts, of which, 44% are parents…Of these parents, 48% have deployed multiple times…Roughly 2 million children have been impacted by a parent deploying (as cited in Link & Palinkas, p. 376, 2013). These statistics are staggering. About 2 million children have to cope with a parent being deployed, and about fifty percent of those parents are deployed more than once. Deployment can cause
Deployment and integration are one the greatest challenges military families and children have to face on a daily basis. When a family member deploys or reintegrates within the entire family, it not only affects the service member but it affects the entire family. Deployment can often lead to families and children, experiencing a negative mental health outcomes and compromised wellbeing. Bello (2015) found that most families and children (80.5% required less than one month to adjust to the return of their deployed parent (Bello, 2015). Accordingly, the families and children are often quick to adjust to having their family member back in the home. Interestingly, discoveries are surprising in light of the fact that when contrasted to another family, the discoveries are definitely unique. Boberiene (2014) found that three out of every four families feel that reintegration after the first three months is the most stressful phase of a deployment (Boberiene, 2014). This is because the family experiences many emotions while the member is away.
One way to accomplish this is through answering research questions related to military family life, such as “How do multiple deployments, multiple moves and other military lifestyle factors affect the development of attachment in military children?” and “What is the long-term impact on military children who have experienced multiple deployments, relocations and other life-disrupting events associated with military life?” As America continues to send service members to the Middle East in the midst of the longest military conflict in its history, gaining an understanding of the long-term impact on this generation of military children is crucial to aid in the development of programs and resources with the hope of ameliorating the challenges they have encountered. Additionally, the answers to these research questions may assist in identifying protective and risk factors and increase positive outcomes for these children as they grow into