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A Good Man Is Hard To Find By Flannery O Connor

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Hunter Hudson Ms.Badenhop Junior English 06 March 2024 A Good Man is Hard to Find Why do people manipulate others? It’s a bad thing to do to people, so is there honestly a good reason to do it to people? In O’Connor’s story, Grandma seems to think that manipulation isn't a bad thing to do, instead, she thinks it could be useful in certain situations. Grandma and her family go on a trip to Tennessee, but Grandma doesn't want to go. As they drive, they get into an accident. These people come to help them, but one individual seems to be very familiar to Grandma. Grandma makes a big mistake, she confronts him about it. This “individual” name is the Misfit. The misfit didn't want anyone to know who he was and that he escaped prison. He has his friends …show more content…

Throughout O’Connor’s story, Grandma's characterization of being manipulative reveals that fear can cause a person to be manipulative. Grandma is a manipulator towards the misfit. In the story, Grandma discovered he was the misfit and what he was capable of. Grandma says, “You wouldn't shoot an old lady, would you?” (O’Connor 9). Saying the words “would you”, reveals that Grandma adds this just to try to get to him, she starts to make him feel guilty. Therefore, Grandma uses manipulation to get to the Misfit, she says things that would make a person second guess themselves. Later, a piercing scream from the woods was followed closely by a pistol report. Grandma says, “You've got good blood, I know you wouldn't shoot an old lady!” (O’Connor 12). Using the words “You've got good blood” reveals that Grandma starts to manipulate the misfit out of fear. She's trying to persuade him by saying “You've got good blood”, which is she trying to make him feel guilty about what he's …show more content…

Saying the words “by mistake” shows that Grandma knows it was no mistake for the Misfit to be put into prison, but by saying this, she hopes that he sees her as a person to trust. Therefore, she uses manipulation to try to get into the misfit's head, trying to change his mind/perspective. She turned the situation from being his fault to not being his fault at all, instead, she's trying to make him sound innocent. On the other hand, after being manipulative throughout the story, Grandma shows genuine empathy. Later on, the Misfit and the Grandma had a sensitive conversation. Grandma says, “Why you’re one of my babies, you’re one of my own children” (O’Connor 13). The use of the words “my own children” reveals that Grandma uses a sensitive topic: knowing the Misfit has family issues, she digs deep to try to get to him. Thus, Grandma's manipulation usage is very strong, but you can see that she seems to care for him a bit more, she tries to comfort him by saying that to persuade him not to kill her. In O’Connor’s story, we see that Grandma's characterization of being manipulative reveals that the fear within someone can cause a person to manipulate others to get out of

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